Anonymous
Post 03/13/2024 18:29     Subject: Wife is hurtful

Accept that your marriage is over, and figure out how to protect yourself going forward (in every way).
Anonymous
Post 03/13/2024 18:23     Subject: Wife is hurtful

Anonymous wrote:Are you my dh? I could see him saying that about me. I have tried, tried, tried. I love the idea of him, the who he was a million years ago, but who is now disappoints me.


Are you me? I also thought this could be my DH and you could be me!
Anonymous
Post 03/13/2024 17:44     Subject: Wife is hurtful

Are you my dh? I could see him saying that about me. I have tried, tried, tried. I love the idea of him, the who he was a million years ago, but who is now disappoints me.
Anonymous
Post 03/13/2024 17:32     Subject: Wife is hurtful

Anonymous wrote:So, instead of listening to her concerns you post here complaining? Man up.


What makes it seem like OP is not listening to her concerns?
Anonymous
Post 03/13/2024 16:04     Subject: Wife is hurtful

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:In how cold she is toward me. We've gone through rough times together but I'm trying to be open and work on things. But she's just cold and distant and doesn't seem to want a relationship any longer and from the conversations we've had she has said as much. I do love her. Any recommendations on what to do?


So you messed up, but expect her to get over it immediately when you decide to start "working on it".

My recommendation is to give her time to process the rough times and let her be while she's at it.


You're assuming that OP caused the rough times.


Men are always the root cause for rough times.


Hahaha. The only rought times my DW gets is between the sheets.
Anonymous
Post 03/13/2024 16:04     Subject: Wife is hurtful

Anonymous wrote:In how cold she is toward me. We've gone through rough times together but I'm trying to be open and work on things. But she's just cold and distant and doesn't seem to want a relationship any longer and from the conversations we've had she has said as much. I do love her. Any recommendations on what to do?


Tell if she doesn't want a relationship then you want a divorce.
Anonymous
Post 03/13/2024 15:31     Subject: Wife is hurtful

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:In how cold she is toward me. We've gone through rough times together but I'm trying to be open and work on things. But she's just cold and distant and doesn't seem to want a relationship any longer and from the conversations we've had she has said as much. I do love her. Any recommendations on what to do?


So you messed up, but expect her to get over it immediately when you decide to start "working on it".

My recommendation is to give her time to process the rough times and let her be while she's at it.


You're assuming that OP caused the rough times.


Men are always the root cause for rough times.
Anonymous
Post 03/13/2024 15:26     Subject: Wife is hurtful

Anonymous
Post 03/13/2024 15:23     Subject: Wife is hurtful

So, instead of listening to her concerns you post here complaining? Man up.