Anonymous wrote:How you get them is how you lose them, Natalie.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:How you get them is how you lose them, Natalie.
This.
+1. He cheated with her then married her when she was pregnant. No one thought it would last even this long.
+1 shouldn't have had that 2nd band aid baby
Eh, she might have just wanted two kids. I have a friend who did this -- knew the marriage was basically over, but was mid-30s with one kid and wanted two kids and preferred the idea of having them be siblings with the same parents, even if those parents were divorced. It is way easier in that situation to just have another child with the guy you are already married to and have one kid with, and then divorce. Your other options are to divorce immediately and hope you find someone else to have a kid with before you hit whatever age you want to have a baby before (and then have to do the whole blended family thing), or divorce immediately and then have a kid on your own, which can be especially disruptive and confusing for your existing kid.
It sounded kind of crazy to me when my friend told me this is what she did, but the more I think about it, the more sense it makes. If you are a woman in your early to mid-30s and already have a kid with your husband, it honestly just seems dumb to get divorced immediately if you'd really like another kid. Financially, personally, timeline-wise -- you might as well get a second child out of that relationship before you move on. It's efficient and tidy.
Except the babies grow up to be real people and end up as collateral damage
Seriously, what a horribly selfish act. On a lesser note, look what a mess Khloe Kardashian made of her family by having a baby with serial cheater Tristan Thompson, and then years later hired a surrogate to carry her second child with Thompson. So the kids would be genetic siblings.
Like collecting matching vases.
Her sister chose to have FOUR children with a mentally ill man.
You sound ableist.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:How you get them is how you lose them, Natalie.
This.
+1. He cheated with her then married her when she was pregnant. No one thought it would last even this long.
+1 shouldn't have had that 2nd band aid baby
Eh, she might have just wanted two kids. I have a friend who did this -- knew the marriage was basically over, but was mid-30s with one kid and wanted two kids and preferred the idea of having them be siblings with the same parents, even if those parents were divorced. It is way easier in that situation to just have another child with the guy you are already married to and have one kid with, and then divorce. Your other options are to divorce immediately and hope you find someone else to have a kid with before you hit whatever age you want to have a baby before (and then have to do the whole blended family thing), or divorce immediately and then have a kid on your own, which can be especially disruptive and confusing for your existing kid.
It sounded kind of crazy to me when my friend told me this is what she did, but the more I think about it, the more sense it makes. If you are a woman in your early to mid-30s and already have a kid with your husband, it honestly just seems dumb to get divorced immediately if you'd really like another kid. Financially, personally, timeline-wise -- you might as well get a second child out of that relationship before you move on. It's efficient and tidy.
Except the babies grow up to be real people and end up as collateral damage
Seriously, what a horribly selfish act. On a lesser note, look what a mess Khloe Kardashian made of her family by having a baby with serial cheater Tristan Thompson, and then years later hired a surrogate to carry her second child with Thompson. So the kids would be genetic siblings.
Like collecting matching vases.
Her sister chose to have FOUR children with a mentally ill man.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:How you get them is how you lose them, Natalie.
This.
+1. He cheated with her then married her when she was pregnant. No one thought it would last even this long.
+1 shouldn't have had that 2nd band aid baby
Eh, she might have just wanted two kids. I have a friend who did this -- knew the marriage was basically over, but was mid-30s with one kid and wanted two kids and preferred the idea of having them be siblings with the same parents, even if those parents were divorced. It is way easier in that situation to just have another child with the guy you are already married to and have one kid with, and then divorce. Your other options are to divorce immediately and hope you find someone else to have a kid with before you hit whatever age you want to have a baby before (and then have to do the whole blended family thing), or divorce immediately and then have a kid on your own, which can be especially disruptive and confusing for your existing kid.
It sounded kind of crazy to me when my friend told me this is what she did, but the more I think about it, the more sense it makes. If you are a woman in your early to mid-30s and already have a kid with your husband, it honestly just seems dumb to get divorced immediately if you'd really like another kid. Financially, personally, timeline-wise -- you might as well get a second child out of that relationship before you move on. It's efficient and tidy.
Except the babies grow up to be real people and end up as collateral damage
Seriously, what a horribly selfish act. On a lesser note, look what a mess Khloe Kardashian made of her family by having a baby with serial cheater Tristan Thompson, and then years later hired a surrogate to carry her second child with Thompson. So the kids would be genetic siblings.
Like collecting matching vases.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:How you get them is how you lose them, Natalie.
This.
+1. He cheated with her then married her when she was pregnant. No one thought it would last even this long.
+1 shouldn't have had that 2nd band aid baby
Eh, she might have just wanted two kids. I have a friend who did this -- knew the marriage was basically over, but was mid-30s with one kid and wanted two kids and preferred the idea of having them be siblings with the same parents, even if those parents were divorced. It is way easier in that situation to just have another child with the guy you are already married to and have one kid with, and then divorce. Your other options are to divorce immediately and hope you find someone else to have a kid with before you hit whatever age you want to have a baby before (and then have to do the whole blended family thing), or divorce immediately and then have a kid on your own, which can be especially disruptive and confusing for your existing kid.
It sounded kind of crazy to me when my friend told me this is what she did, but the more I think about it, the more sense it makes. If you are a woman in your early to mid-30s and already have a kid with your husband, it honestly just seems dumb to get divorced immediately if you'd really like another kid. Financially, personally, timeline-wise -- you might as well get a second child out of that relationship before you move on. It's efficient and tidy.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:How you get them is how you lose them, Natalie.
This.
+1. He cheated with her then married her when she was pregnant. No one thought it would last even this long.
+1 shouldn't have had that 2nd band aid baby
Eh, she might have just wanted two kids. I have a friend who did this -- knew the marriage was basically over, but was mid-30s with one kid and wanted two kids and preferred the idea of having them be siblings with the same parents, even if those parents were divorced. It is way easier in that situation to just have another child with the guy you are already married to and have one kid with, and then divorce. Your other options are to divorce immediately and hope you find someone else to have a kid with before you hit whatever age you want to have a baby before (and then have to do the whole blended family thing), or divorce immediately and then have a kid on your own, which can be especially disruptive and confusing for your existing kid.
It sounded kind of crazy to me when my friend told me this is what she did, but the more I think about it, the more sense it makes. If you are a woman in your early to mid-30s and already have a kid with your husband, it honestly just seems dumb to get divorced immediately if you'd really like another kid. Financially, personally, timeline-wise -- you might as well get a second child out of that relationship before you move on. It's efficient and tidy.
Except the babies grow up to be real people and end up as collateral damage
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:How you get them is how you lose them, Natalie.
This.
+1. He cheated with her then married her when she was pregnant. No one thought it would last even this long.
+1 shouldn't have had that 2nd band aid baby
Eh, she might have just wanted two kids. I have a friend who did this -- knew the marriage was basically over, but was mid-30s with one kid and wanted two kids and preferred the idea of having them be siblings with the same parents, even if those parents were divorced. It is way easier in that situation to just have another child with the guy you are already married to and have one kid with, and then divorce. Your other options are to divorce immediately and hope you find someone else to have a kid with before you hit whatever age you want to have a baby before (and then have to do the whole blended family thing), or divorce immediately and then have a kid on your own, which can be especially disruptive and confusing for your existing kid.
It sounded kind of crazy to me when my friend told me this is what she did, but the more I think about it, the more sense it makes. If you are a woman in your early to mid-30s and already have a kid with your husband, it honestly just seems dumb to get divorced immediately if you'd really like another kid. Financially, personally, timeline-wise -- you might as well get a second child out of that relationship before you move on. It's efficient and tidy.
Except the babies grow up to be real people and end up as collateral damage
Seriously, what a horribly selfish act. On a lesser note, look what a mess Khloe Kardashian made of her family by having a baby with serial cheater Tristan Thompson, and then years later hired a surrogate to carry her second child with Thompson. So the kids would be genetic siblings.
Like collecting matching vases.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:How you get them is how you lose them, Natalie.
This.
+1. He cheated with her then married her when she was pregnant. No one thought it would last even this long.
+1 shouldn't have had that 2nd band aid baby
Eh, she might have just wanted two kids. I have a friend who did this -- knew the marriage was basically over, but was mid-30s with one kid and wanted two kids and preferred the idea of having them be siblings with the same parents, even if those parents were divorced. It is way easier in that situation to just have another child with the guy you are already married to and have one kid with, and then divorce. Your other options are to divorce immediately and hope you find someone else to have a kid with before you hit whatever age you want to have a baby before (and then have to do the whole blended family thing), or divorce immediately and then have a kid on your own, which can be especially disruptive and confusing for your existing kid.
It sounded kind of crazy to me when my friend told me this is what she did, but the more I think about it, the more sense it makes. If you are a woman in your early to mid-30s and already have a kid with your husband, it honestly just seems dumb to get divorced immediately if you'd really like another kid. Financially, personally, timeline-wise -- you might as well get a second child out of that relationship before you move on. It's efficient and tidy.
Except the babies grow up to be real people and end up as collateral damage
Anonymous wrote:Whoever could have predicted this shocking turn of events.🙄
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:How you get them is how you lose them, Natalie.
This.
+1. He cheated with her then married her when she was pregnant. No one thought it would last even this long.
+1 shouldn't have had that 2nd band aid baby
Eh, she might have just wanted two kids. I have a friend who did this -- knew the marriage was basically over, but was mid-30s with one kid and wanted two kids and preferred the idea of having them be siblings with the same parents, even if those parents were divorced. It is way easier in that situation to just have another child with the guy you are already married to and have one kid with, and then divorce. Your other options are to divorce immediately and hope you find someone else to have a kid with before you hit whatever age you want to have a baby before (and then have to do the whole blended family thing), or divorce immediately and then have a kid on your own, which can be especially disruptive and confusing for your existing kid.
It sounded kind of crazy to me when my friend told me this is what she did, but the more I think about it, the more sense it makes. If you are a woman in your early to mid-30s and already have a kid with your husband, it honestly just seems dumb to get divorced immediately if you'd really like another kid. Financially, personally, timeline-wise -- you might as well get a second child out of that relationship before you move on. It's efficient and tidy.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:How you get them is how you lose them, Natalie.
This.
+1. He cheated with her then married her when she was pregnant. No one thought it would last even this long.
+1 shouldn't have had that 2nd band aid baby