Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
I’m all for seeking support elsewhere.
It’s not fair to put the burden on just one person.
But don’t hurt your spouse, or bring back STDs.
Me again. I have a male friend who supports me and vice versa. We mainly text, but occasionally see each other in person. We are careful not to get physical, though. The relationship has a slight romantic edge I don’t have with other friends, male or female. It fulfills a need we both have, apparently.
You are having an affair.
Please stop with this nonsense. As long as all parties are aware and consenting, there is no affair. Every marriage doesn't have to look the same.
By definition, monogamous is 1 person.
You add another person, is not monogamous
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
I’m all for seeking support elsewhere.
It’s not fair to put the burden on just one person.
But don’t hurt your spouse, or bring back STDs.
Me again. I have a male friend who supports me and vice versa. We mainly text, but occasionally see each other in person. We are careful not to get physical, though. The relationship has a slight romantic edge I don’t have with other friends, male or female. It fulfills a need we both have, apparently.
You are having an affair.
Please stop with this nonsense. As long as all parties are aware and consenting, there is no affair. Every marriage doesn't have to look the same.
By definition, monogamous is 1 person.
You add another person, is not monogamous
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
I’m all for seeking support elsewhere.
It’s not fair to put the burden on just one person.
But don’t hurt your spouse, or bring back STDs.
Me again. I have a male friend who supports me and vice versa. We mainly text, but occasionally see each other in person. We are careful not to get physical, though. The relationship has a slight romantic edge I don’t have with other friends, male or female. It fulfills a need we both have, apparently.
You are having an affair.
Please stop with this nonsense. As long as all parties are aware and consenting, there is no affair. Every marriage doesn't have to look the same.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:That is not modern monogamy. That is an affair. Grow up.
Affair implies deception. There is none here.
An affair is a relationship outside of marriage. That is what you have. That is not monogamy.
Anonymous wrote:How did you find a guy who is willing to participate in an emotional relationship? Does he have a GF/spouse?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:That is not modern monogamy. That is an affair. Grow up.
Affair implies deception. There is none here.
An affair is a relationship outside of marriage. That is what you have. That is not monogamy.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
I’m all for seeking support elsewhere.
It’s not fair to put the burden on just one person.
But don’t hurt your spouse, or bring back STDs.
Me again. I have a male friend who supports me and vice versa. We mainly text, but occasionally see each other in person. We are careful not to get physical, though. The relationship has a slight romantic edge I don’t have with other friends, male or female. It fulfills a need we both have, apparently.
You are having an affair.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
I’m all for seeking support elsewhere.
It’s not fair to put the burden on just one person.
But don’t hurt your spouse, or bring back STDs.
Me again. I have a male friend who supports me and vice versa. We mainly text, but occasionally see each other in person. We are careful not to get physical, though. The relationship has a slight romantic edge I don’t have with other friends, male or female. It fulfills a need we both have, apparently.
You are having an affair.