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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:There was one in Houston where a man living in the backyard of the mother killed her daughter. He had swastikas tattooed on his body. He sometimes "babysat" the girl. I used that as a lesson to my kids that I would never allow someone who looked like that to babysit them and if he ever tried to lure them into his car to scream and run away b/c there would never be a reason I would ask someone like that to do such a thing. Every alarm bell should have gone off about this guy, yet he was allowed to be close to the family.

You are not a very clever person, mom. As a former prosecutor of child sexual assaults, I can attest to you having had hundreds of hours of trainings on the issue and read thousands of pages of research, the men most likely to rape or assault your kids are members of your own family, circle of friends, or otherwise upstanding members of the community - teachers, Scout masters, pastors, coaches, etc.

You are a FOOL if you think you're protecting your child by keeping people with tattoos away from them.

Yep. A lot of child predators are people you think are nice, normal family men. The dad in Falls Church who was married to the mayor comes to mind...

Anonymous wrote:Ok, well now I completely blame the mom. Why in the world wasn’t he in jail?

https://people.com/madeline-soto-mother-boyfriend-allegedly-sexually-abused-her-two-years-ago-8605098

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:There was one in Houston where a man living in the backyard of the mother killed her daughter. He had swastikas tattooed on his body. He sometimes "babysat" the girl. I used that as a lesson to my kids that I would never allow someone who looked like that to babysit them and if he ever tried to lure them into his car to scream and run away b/c there would never be a reason I would ask someone like that to do such a thing. Every alarm bell should have gone off about this guy, yet he was allowed to be close to the family.

You are not a very clever person, mom. As a former prosecutor of child sexual assaults, I can attest to you having had hundreds of hours of trainings on the issue and read thousands of pages of research, the men most likely to rape or assault your kids are members of your own family, circle of friends, or otherwise upstanding members of the community - teachers, Scout masters, pastors, coaches, etc.

You are a FOOL if you think you're protecting your child by keeping people with tattoos away from them.

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Anonymous wrote:Lots of crappy moms value having a boyfriend over their kids. Why do they even bring these creeps into their homes in the first place? Because they care more about themselves than their kids.

Lots of single-parent men and women date and marry new partners. It’s unfair of you to call them all selfish bc of that. The dating was not the issue. You should place the blame where it belongs, which is with the murderer, whomever that turns out to be.

If the boyfriend turns out to be the murderer, then the judgment should be on him for being a terrible human. The judgment should not be placed on the mom simply for choosing to date. No one should feel guilty for dating and wanting a partner and companionship. That is not a bad desire to have, it is natural.

Now it is up to the single parent to do their research and due diligence on new partners and choose wisely, but honestly that is still no guarantee that you haven’t chosen a nefarious person. But the same can be said of bio-parent couples too, that end up abusing or killing their kids.

Ultimately the blame lies with whomever committed the abuse. Stop vilifying single mothers for wanting to date. No one calls single dads bad people for getting remarried, so quit the double standard.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:There was one in Houston where a man living in the backyard of the mother killed her daughter. He had swastikas tattooed on his body. He sometimes "babysat" the girl. I used that as a lesson to my kids that I would never allow someone who looked like that to babysit them and if he ever tried to lure them into his car to scream and run away b/c there would never be a reason I would ask someone like that to do such a thing. Every alarm bell should have gone off about this guy, yet he was allowed to be close to the family.

You are not a very clever person, mom. As a former prosecutor of child sexual assaults, I can attest to you having had hundreds of hours of trainings on the issue and read thousands of pages of research, the men most likely to rape or assault your kids are members of your own family, circle of friends, or otherwise upstanding members of the community - teachers, Scout masters, pastors, coaches, etc.

You are a FOOL if you think you're protecting your child by keeping people with tattoos away from them.

They were f*****g swastikas, moron.

And my factual point remains, that the vast majority of men who would rape your children look like your husband and not like that perpetrator.

Anonymous wrote:Lots of crappy moms value having a boyfriend over their kids. Why do they even bring these creeps into their homes in the first place? Because they care more about themselves than their kids.

Anonymous wrote:How long is it going to take to charge the boyfriend with murder? What’s happening with the mom? No updates for several days. And where is the bio dad?

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:There was one in Houston where a man living in the backyard of the mother killed her daughter. He had swastikas tattooed on his body. He sometimes "babysat" the girl. I used that as a lesson to my kids that I would never allow someone who looked like that to babysit them and if he ever tried to lure them into his car to scream and run away b/c there would never be a reason I would ask someone like that to do such a thing. Every alarm bell should have gone off about this guy, yet he was allowed to be close to the family.

You are not a very clever person, mom. As a former prosecutor of child sexual assaults, I can attest to you having had hundreds of hours of trainings on the issue and read thousands of pages of research, the men most likely to rape or assault your kids are members of your own family, circle of friends, or otherwise upstanding members of the community - teachers, Scout masters, pastors, coaches, etc.

You are a FOOL if you think you're protecting your child by keeping people with tattoos away from them.

They were f*****g swastikas, moron.