Anonymous wrote:As many others have said, I wouldn’t sweat the release part. I’ve heard it dangled but never an issue in the end. I have heard of clubs dragging their feet, intentional or not, so I’d get going sooner rather than later.

It’s probably not even legal for a club to enforce that but not like anyone’s filing a lawsuit; too expensive and would take too long to make a difference.

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Anonymous wrote:Many are using these tactics to teach their kid how to be a quitter.
Cut & Run instead of dealing with and overcoming some short term adversity.

Snowplow parents.

I’m sure this is true to some degree. However, looking back over a combined 14 years of travel soccer experience with our two kids, I can tell you for certain that there are times when a change is warranted entirely for reasons outside of your or your child’s control. Think politics, toxic environment, etc. We’d like to think that the “real world” doesn’t seep into youth sports but it does, unfortunately.

Can't protect your kid from the real world, nor should we want to. That's a disservice to them.

Yes, I'm sure there are true extremes and extenuating circumstances that may require a mid-season move, but we all know most don't need that much to jump ship.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Many are using these tactics to teach their kid how to be a quitter.
Cut & Run instead of dealing with and overcoming some short term adversity.

Snowplow parents.

*edit Snowplow poster (there I fixed it for you Karen)!

Show you're guilty of switching mid-season to chase greener pastures for vanity reasons without saying it

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Many are using these tactics to teach their kid how to be a quitter.
Cut & Run instead of dealing with and overcoming some short term adversity.

Snowplow parents.

*edit Snowplow poster (there I fixed it for you Karen)!

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Many are using these tactics to teach their kid how to be a quitter.
Cut & Run instead of dealing with and overcoming some short term adversity.

Snowplow parents.

*edit Snowplow poster (there I fixed it for you Karen)!

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Many are using these tactics to teach their kid how to be a quitter.
Cut & Run instead of dealing with and overcoming some short term adversity.

Snowplow parents.

I’m sure this is true to some degree. However, looking back over a combined 14 years of travel soccer experience with our two kids, I can tell you for certain that there are times when a change is warranted entirely for reasons outside of your or your child’s control. Think politics, toxic environment, etc. We’d like to think that the “real world” doesn’t seep into youth sports but it does, unfortunately.

Anonymous wrote:Many are using these tactics to teach their kid how to be a quitter.
Cut & Run instead of dealing with and overcoming some short term adversity.

Snowplow parents.

Anonymous wrote:Many are using these tactics to teach their kid how to be a quitter.
Cut & Run instead of dealing with and overcoming some short term adversity.

Snowplow parents.

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Anonymous wrote:We have toyed with the idea of moving our kid to a different club for spring. When I brought it up to a couple veteran soccer parents (we are new in travel soccer) we were told the club won't release the player cards for them to play on another team. We are now hesitant on asking the coach or tell them we are thinking about leaving because they will most likely take it out on the kid.

Does anyone have any words of wisdom on doing something like this?

Finish your commitment unless its an environment that is flat out dangerous for your child. Use it as a lesson for your search in a new club.

If you do choose to switch clubs, there can be issues with carding and you'll end up having to fulfill your financial commitment to the current club in order to transfer that to the new one.

We do not mind forfeiting the money we have already paid.

We aren't changing because of a dangerous environment. Zero winter season, parents are expected to pay the coaches privately for lessons, we have not communicated or seen our coach in months, we have tournaments coming up in march we aren't ready for, it seems they have set up the team to do their worst. Fall season started to show some red flags but we powered through and now my kid is bored and hasn't even touched a field with teamates in months We try and take them to the field a couple times a week. Finding a free goal to use after school is hard work sometimes and we drive to several fields. My kid does their own drills in our side yard most days. I would hope moving them to a team that has a present coach would get them excited again. They personally have asked to look at new clubs because they want to get field time with someone giving them direction. While we can look up drills and have apps we are not professional coaches.

Anonymous wrote:We moved mid season and it was the best thing for our kid. The clubs are not loyal to the kids so do what is best for your child

Anonymous wrote:We moved mid season and it was the best thing for our kid. The clubs are not loyal to the kids so do what is best for your child

Anonymous wrote:A club cannot hold your player card if you are fully paid with them. You'll hear it as a scare tactic; but they get in trouble if reported and are forced to then release the card, which most clubs aren't going to go that far. Try out a few clubs now going to practices. honestly it's so late in the off season you're better off finishing the season while having a new club) team lined up. The chance of getting a uniform before March tournaments start is low