Anonymous
Post 02/19/2024 21:21     Subject: Re:Do you fantasize about someone else?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Doesn’t everyone do this?


No!


Never ever ever, ever ever?


No no need to.
Anonymous
Post 02/19/2024 21:05     Subject: Do you fantasize about someone else?
All the time, I fantasize about my crush at work.
Anonymous
Post 02/19/2024 20:31     Subject: Do you fantasize about someone else?
Anonymous wrote:Happily married man here. I love my wife, I find her attractive, and would never cheat in a million years.
BUT, I fantasize about sex with other women (ex-GFs, women at work, other Moms in our social circle, neighbors) all the time. All the time.
Any man who claims otherwise is either lying or secretly gay.
and if he's secretly gay, he probably fantasizes about men.


Because you have a connection with them in some way emotionally or purely physical?
Anonymous
Post 02/19/2024 18:13     Subject: Re:Do you fantasize about someone else?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Doesn’t everyone do this?


No!


Never ever ever, ever ever?
Anonymous
Post 02/19/2024 17:07     Subject: Do you fantasize about someone else?
Anonymous wrote:Happily married man here. I love my wife, I find her attractive, and would never cheat in a million years.
BUT, I fantasize about sex with other women (ex-GFs, women at work, other Moms in our social circle, neighbors) all the time. All the time.
Any man who claims otherwise is either lying or secretly gay.
and if he's secretly gay, he probably fantasizes about men.


same typically someone that exists in my orbit

-high drive DW
Anonymous
Post 02/19/2024 17:00     Subject: Do you fantasize about someone else?
Happily married man here. I love my wife, I find her attractive, and would never cheat in a million years.
BUT, I fantasize about sex with other women (ex-GFs, women at work, other Moms in our social circle, neighbors) all the time. All the time.
Any man who claims otherwise is either lying or secretly gay.
and if he's secretly gay, he probably fantasizes about men.
Anonymous
Post 02/19/2024 16:43     Subject: Re:Do you fantasize about someone else?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Doesn’t everyone do this?


I would have lost money, given some "nos" I thought everyone did this as well.


welp, count me as one of the weirdos that does. I thought this was normal if not healthy to spice up your love life?

extradyadic fantasies are a sign of a healthy sex drive...and outlet for a crush


Same. Though I probably didn't start until maybe year 10 into the marriage?

It's pretty great. Actually takes away from any desire to have an affair -- why bother since you can just close your eyes? Agree that if my husband does that I really really do not want to know.
Anonymous
Post 02/19/2024 16:34     Subject: Re:Do you fantasize about someone else?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Doesn’t everyone do this?


I would have lost money, given some "nos" I thought everyone did this as well.


welp, count me as one of the weirdos that does. I thought this was normal if not healthy to spice up your love life?

extradyadic fantasies are a sign of a healthy sex drive...and outlet for a crush
Anonymous
Post 02/19/2024 16:18     Subject: Re:Do you fantasize about someone else?
Anonymous wrote:Doesn’t everyone do this?


I would have lost money, given some "nos" I thought everyone did this as well.
Anonymous
Post 02/19/2024 15:11     Subject: Re:Do you fantasize about someone else?
Anonymous wrote:Doesn’t everyone do this?


No
Anonymous
Post 02/19/2024 15:06     Subject: Do you fantasize about someone else?
Almost every time. I wouldn't be hurt if DH did too, but I certainly don't want him to tell me.
Anonymous
Post 02/19/2024 14:23     Subject: Re:Do you fantasize about someone else?
Of course I’m married, not dead. It’s more than just attraction but personality and elements of realism. A celebrity or magazine face doesn’t do it for me.
Anonymous
Post 02/19/2024 12:25     Subject: Re:Do you fantasize about someone else?
I fantasize about OP all the time. It’s how I deal with my bi interest.
Anonymous
Post 02/19/2024 12:24     Subject: Do you fantasize about someone else?
All the time. Constantly wishing I could go back in time and undo the mistake of marrying my spouse. Think about how happier my life would be if I married the following people instead.

GS
CC
CC
KR
AY

But, you deal with the decision you make. Thus, the miserable life I have.
Anonymous
Post 02/19/2024 12:23     Subject: Re:Do you fantasize about someone else?
God, yes.