Anonymous
Post 02/15/2024 22:51     Subject: How old were you when you lost your parents?

Anonymous wrote:NP. Wow, how sad that so many posters lost a parent so young... that just makes one realize (once again) how short life is.

Those whose parents died so young, would you mind sharing the cause?

In my case (45) parents, in-laws, aunts, uncles, also those of DH, are still alive. All 80 and above. They are just now starting to decline, so I guess we need to brace ourselves for the first losses...


I’m one of the PPs whose dad died when he was 44 and I was 16. He had undiagnosed celiac disease before it was a disease people were aware of. That led to cancer and he died of internal bleeding. From diagnosis to death was like 3 months.
Anonymous
Post 02/15/2024 22:40     Subject: How old were you when you lost your parents?

33 when my Dad died at the age of 69. I am 39 and my Mom is still alive at 75.
Anonymous
Post 02/15/2024 22:29     Subject: How old were you when you lost your parents?

NP. Wow, how sad that so many posters lost a parent so young... that just makes one realize (once again) how short life is.

Those whose parents died so young, would you mind sharing the cause?

In my case (45) parents, in-laws, aunts, uncles, also those of DH, are still alive. All 80 and above. They are just now starting to decline, so I guess we need to brace ourselves for the first losses...
Anonymous
Post 02/15/2024 15:16     Subject: How old were you when you lost your parents?

39 when my dad died; 47 when my mom died. I miss them all the time and especially miss that my kids don't have them in their lives. All my friends still have 1 or both living parents. It's hard not to be envious.
Anonymous
Post 02/15/2024 14:42     Subject: How old were you when you lost your parents?

19 when my dad died at 50
Mom is still alive at 76 and I’m 49: stepfather is still alive at 96 (!)
Anonymous
Post 02/15/2024 11:13     Subject: How old were you when you lost your parents?

Anonymous wrote:I'm 54 and both my parents are still living. They're both 87.

Same, fingers crossed. Late 80s them/ early 50s me.
Anonymous
Post 02/15/2024 10:10     Subject: How old were you when you lost your parents?

Lost my mom at 30, she was 60. It will be three years next week. The pain is still unbelievable some days.
Anonymous
Post 02/15/2024 10:10     Subject: How old were you when you lost your parents?

I'm 54 and both my parents are still living. They're both 87.
Anonymous
Post 02/15/2024 10:08     Subject: How old were you when you lost your parents?

Anonymous wrote:How old were they?



Dad was 81, I was 45. Healthy, in shape, still working, never overate, and active but heart disease runs in the family.
Anonymous
Post 02/15/2024 09:45     Subject: How old were you when you lost your parents?

I was 45 when my dad died at age 76 and I was 48 when my mom passed at 78.
Anonymous
Post 02/15/2024 09:22     Subject: How old were you when you lost your parents?

56 when my dad died at 80
I'm 57 now and mom is still living at 80.
Anonymous
Post 02/15/2024 09:04     Subject: How old were you when you lost your parents?

18 when Mom died. She was 54.
44 when Dad died. He was 80.

I’m now older than mom was when she passed. That was a bit of a mindf@&$.
Anonymous
Post 02/15/2024 09:01     Subject: How old were you when you lost your parents?

17 - Dad 49
30- Mom 54

Anonymous
Post 02/15/2024 04:25     Subject: How old were you when you lost your parents?

24 when my mom died at 58
42 when my dad died at 80
Anonymous
Post 02/15/2024 04:04     Subject: How old were you when you lost your parents?

40 when mom died; 46 when dad died, six years apart, almost to the day.