Anonymous
Post 02/19/2025 19:04     Subject: Hugs?
Anonymous wrote:I found an old thread to ask a question that I don’t want to attract much attention to. If there is a man who says that he only feels that he and you (woman) are friends and then gives you a really tight and long (at least 30 seconds) hug, what does that mean? Does he truly feel like a friend or is there something more going on? The woman is married, the man is single.


If he's gay, this is comforting. If he's het, this is super weird, unless they're childhood friends or otherwise especially close.

30 seconds of physical contact is pretty intimate.
Anonymous
Post 02/19/2025 18:48     Subject: Hugs?
Held, no squeeze, no grope.
Anonymous
Post 02/19/2025 18:47     Subject: Re:Hugs?
Anonymous wrote:I hate when my husband hugs me. It just reminds me how I'm here for the money.


😩😩
Anonymous
Post 02/19/2025 18:42     Subject: Hugs?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I found an old thread to ask a question that I don’t want to attract much attention to. If there is a man who says that he only feels that he and you (woman) are friends and then gives you a really tight and long (at least 30 seconds) hug, what does that mean? Does he truly feel like a friend or is there something more going on? The woman is married, the man is single.


He cares about her.

In what way?
Anonymous
Post 02/19/2025 18:23     Subject: Hugs?
Anonymous wrote:I found an old thread to ask a question that I don’t want to attract much attention to. If there is a man who says that he only feels that he and you (woman) are friends and then gives you a really tight and long (at least 30 seconds) hug, what does that mean? Does he truly feel like a friend or is there something more going on? The woman is married, the man is single.


He cares about her.
Anonymous
Post 02/19/2025 17:55     Subject: Hugs?
I found an old thread to ask a question that I don’t want to attract much attention to. If there is a man who says that he only feels that he and you (woman) are friends and then gives you a really tight and long (at least 30 seconds) hug, what does that mean? Does he truly feel like a friend or is there something more going on? The woman is married, the man is single.
Anonymous
Post 03/03/2024 12:47     Subject: Hugs?
Anonymous wrote:My wife is a hugger with everyone but me.
As far as I can tell she doesn’t like being groped.


She doesn’t hug you but does everyone else? Have you tried initiating?
Anonymous
Post 02/25/2024 23:22     Subject: Hugs?
My wife is a hugger with everyone but me.
As far as I can tell she doesn’t like being groped.
Anonymous
Post 02/25/2024 22:33     Subject: Hugs?
Hold. Do not squeeze me. EVER! And NO groping. That is weird.
Anonymous
Post 02/25/2024 20:24     Subject: Hugs?
Anonymous wrote:I like a good squeeze, but as only part of the hug. Like a hold-hug, then a tight squeeze and back to hold for a beat and it's over. Like it communicates hold: "love you"; squeeze: "mean it"; hold: "fin".


+1
Anonymous
Post 02/25/2024 14:49     Subject: Hugs?
What kind of hug is this? With a romantic partner? Ask her. Anybody else? Quick, informal, barely touching hug.
Anonymous
Post 02/25/2024 04:18     Subject: Hugs?
A hug can include a quick squeeze but then it’s released. Being held is different, and it depends if you are sitting up or lying down. It sounds like you are overthinking it. Are you very inexperienced?
Anonymous
Post 02/25/2024 02:06     Subject: Hugs?
NP. Please spare your hugs. I personally hate to be hugged by anyone apart from close friends, my kid and DH.

I especially hate it when I meet new people who impose their hugs on my by claiming "I'm a hugger!", as if that would entitle them to touch me beyond a handshake. "Well, I'm not a hugger" Is my reply.
Anonymous
Post 02/25/2024 00:08     Subject: Hugs?
I love a good long squeeze. But, my husband knows that when he holds me it calms me down.
Anonymous
Post 02/24/2024 20:41     Subject: Hugs?
How old are you ? And what is the context of your question? Are you old enough to be reading this?