Anonymous
Post 02/12/2024 22:06     Subject: I can have a woman with a good career or good looks but not both
Anonymous wrote:How short? Like you claim to be 5’10 on your profile or like you could be on a TLC series?


Yeah, OP. We need answers.
Anonymous
Post 02/12/2024 21:59     Subject: I can have a woman with a good career or good looks but not both
Anonymous wrote:If you can afford a cute broke woman, I think you're golden, OP. I'm cute and haven't worked in years. DH is fine with it.


Yep, this. Perfectly valid
Anonymous
Post 02/12/2024 21:56     Subject: Re:I can have a woman with a good career or good looks but not both
I got both. Hot and successful wife.
Anonymous
Post 02/12/2024 21:49     Subject: I can have a woman with a good career or good looks but not both
How short? Like you claim to be 5’10 on your profile or like you could be on a TLC series?
Anonymous
Post 02/12/2024 21:43     Subject: I can have a woman with a good career or good looks but not both
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Can you get surgery to take off the features?


Not an option unfortunately


sup shorty.
Anonymous
Post 02/12/2024 21:42     Subject: I can have a woman with a good career or good looks but not both
Who has good character? These women might lose their looks or their jobs. In a successful marriage, you need to be wildly attracted to their core, their personality.
Anonymous
Post 02/12/2024 21:41     Subject: I can have a woman with a good career or good looks but not both
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Not complaining just saying. I can attract women who are either cute but broke with no career prospects, or have a good career but aren’t conventionally attractive. This is because I’m not a terribly attractive man myself due to some genetically determined features that I can’t control (being vague here on purpose).

I have dated both types but I find myself happier with the cute broke women. Why is this?


Because the ‘cute’ broke women are dumber and have fewer prospects so they will put up with your crap and fawn over you in hopes you will marry them - then they can cheat on you and run up your credit cards.

You are a fool, sir. But no worries, that makes you a run of the mill guy.


See the bitter comment above.
Anonymous
Post 02/12/2024 21:41     Subject: I can have a woman with a good career or good looks but not both
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:IME the cute broke women tend to have more options than unattractive career women and are therefore less bitter. Most well off men are fine with a teacher or whatever (my DH was) if they want kids because they anticipate their partner being a SAHM.

Doesn't sound like this is the case with you though OP so I'd decide if I wanted to figure out how to make more $ or if it's worth it to have a partner I'm not totally attracted to but will afford the lifestyle I want without additional career stress.


I can afford a SAHM but not with a 2M house in McLean and a Porsche. More like an 800k-1M house in Ashburn and a Toyota. I’m currently in a TH I bought when I was 23 in Fairfax co a decade ago.


The question is if you're cool with that life? Or are you concerned that your potential dating prospects will be uninterested in it? I think plenty of decent looking not successful women would be fine with it but yeah if you're looking for anyone hot or successful it's going to be a stretch.
Anonymous
Post 02/12/2024 21:38     Subject: I can have a woman with a good career or good looks but not both
Anonymous wrote:Not complaining just saying. I can attract women who are either cute but broke with no career prospects, or have a good career but aren’t conventionally attractive. This is because I’m not a terribly attractive man myself due to some genetically determined features that I can’t control (being vague here on purpose).

I have dated both types but I find myself happier with the cute broke women. Why is this?


Because the ‘cute’ broke women are dumber and have fewer prospects so they will put up with your crap and fawn over you in hopes you will marry them - then they can cheat on you and run up your credit cards.

You are a fool, sir. But no worries, that makes you a run of the mill guy.
Anonymous
Post 02/12/2024 21:38     Subject: I can have a woman with a good career or good looks but not both
Most men prefer the good looking woman regardless of her income or intelligence.
Anonymous
Post 02/12/2024 21:37     Subject: I can have a woman with a good career or good looks but not both
Anonymous wrote:IME the cute broke women tend to have more options than unattractive career women and are therefore less bitter. Most well off men are fine with a teacher or whatever (my DH was) if they want kids because they anticipate their partner being a SAHM.

Doesn't sound like this is the case with you though OP so I'd decide if I wanted to figure out how to make more $ or if it's worth it to have a partner I'm not totally attracted to but will afford the lifestyle I want without additional career stress.


I can afford a SAHM but not with a 2M house in McLean and a Porsche. More like an 800k-1M house in Ashburn and a Toyota. I’m currently in a TH I bought when I was 23 in Fairfax co a decade ago.
Anonymous
Post 02/12/2024 21:34     Subject: I can have a woman with a good career or good looks but not both
IME the cute broke women tend to have more options than unattractive career women and are therefore less bitter. Most well off men are fine with a teacher or whatever (my DH was) if they want kids because they anticipate their partner being a SAHM.

Doesn't sound like this is the case with you though OP so I'd decide if I wanted to figure out how to make more $ or if it's worth it to have a partner I'm not totally attracted to but will afford the lifestyle I want without additional career stress.
Anonymous
Post 02/12/2024 21:25     Subject: I can have a woman with a good career or good looks but not both
Anonymous wrote:
Sure, if I were a billionaire I would probably not care too much about my partners income. I’m just upper middle class, not broke by most people’s standards but not so rich that I wouldn’t benefit from a second mid 6 figure HHI.


Why would a mid 6 figure attractive woman date you, OP? You're shallow, so even if someone overlooked your looks, you won't offer her much depth, anything interesting, or materially improve her life bc someone making that much with depth knows they don't need more money.


That hypothetical woman is not interested in me at all. I understand why. They are shallow. I am shallow. They have better options.
Anonymous
Post 02/12/2024 21:24     Subject: Re:I can have a woman with a good career or good looks but not both
Anonymous wrote:Plastic surgery.

It sounds like a height issue. Though I loathe seeing this advice, I'll make an exception...Op, make more money.
Anonymous
Post 02/12/2024 21:23     Subject: I can have a woman with a good career or good looks but not both
Attraction is a requirement for most men unlesss they are broke.