15:20, the Dillards link is closest to correct, for the party. Short and tight (I know that's not what most parents want to hear, but it's what they wear) with sneakers. Think homecoming, or look at your friends social media pics from homecoming. I've seen some skater style too. If a kid has an alternative style that's fine too - I've seen girls in one piece pants jumpers and other styles.

For the service, yes, shoulders covered. Church or grandmas birthday party. I've seen girls wear very short dresses the the service and I think it's inappropriate (short enough that they're constantly tugging them down to stay covered. )

At my niece's bat mitzvah last year, all of her friends were wear VERY short and tight dresses similar to homecoming dresses and they just used a random sweater or jean jacket to cover their shoulders. My DD was PISSED I made her wear something more conservative. You should have seen her face when we walked in and she saw everyone else.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Op again. What about this?

https://www.target.com/p/allegra-k-women-s-floral-printed-split-neck-drawstring-waist-sleeveless-a-line-midi-dress/-/A-86858050

https://target.scene7.com/is/image/Target/GUEST_8cd85410-c783-42f9-9ef1-0836f49bf3a7?wid=475&hei=475&qlt=80&fmt=pjpeg

For a 14 year old, no. Go check out Hollister, Altar’d State or Abercrombie.

Every single women’s Hollister dress shows cleavage. Every. Single. One.

I guess it depends on how busty the wearer is, but I wouldn’t have an issue with most of the necklines. They are pretty standard necklines for teen clothes.

Please ignore the embedded links. Your daughter will be in tears if you force her to wear something like that. Lol

Anonymous wrote:https://www.nordstrom.com/s/sequin-ruffle-long-sleeve-cocktail-dress/7638365?origin=keywordsearch-personalizedsort&breadcrumb=Home%2FAll%20Results&color=681

I'm dying

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Op again. What about this?

https://www.target.com/p/allegra-k-women-s-floral-printed-split-neck-drawstring-waist-sleeveless-a-line-midi-dress/-/A-86858050

https://target.scene7.com/is/image/Target/GUEST_8cd85410-c783-42f9-9ef1-0836f49bf3a7?wid=475&hei=475&qlt=80&fmt=pjpeg

For a 14 year old, no. Go check out Hollister, Altar’d State or Abercrombie.

Every single women’s Hollister dress shows cleavage. Every. Single. One.

Anonymous wrote:Op again. What about this?

https://www.target.com/p/allegra-k-women-s-floral-printed-split-neck-drawstring-waist-sleeveless-a-line-midi-dress/-/A-86858050

https://target.scene7.com/is/image/Target/GUEST_8cd85410-c783-42f9-9ef1-0836f49bf3a7?wid=475&hei=475&qlt=80&fmt=pjpeg

For a 14 year old, no. Go check out Hollister, Altar’d State or Abercrombie.

Op again. What about this?

https://www.target.com/p/allegra-k-women-s-floral-printed-split-neck-drawstring-waist-sleeveless-a-line-midi-dress/-/A-86858050

https://target.scene7.com/is/image/Target/GUEST_8cd85410-c783-42f9-9ef1-0836f49bf3a7?wid=475&hei=475&qlt=80&fmt=pjpeg

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:https://www.nordstrom.com/s/sequin-ruffle-long-sleeve-cocktail-dress/7638365?origin=keywordsearch-personalizedsort&breadcrumb=Home%2FAll%20Results&color=681

lol

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:https://www.talbots.com/belted-fit-and-flare-shirtdress--d-daytona-dots/P241036110.html?cgid=apparel-dresses&dwvar_P241036110_color=INDIA%20INK/IVORY&dwvar_P241036110_sizeType=MS

Omg. Stop with the Talbots suggestions for young teens

Seriously what is happening today with suggestion for 14 year olds to wear dresses for middle aged women.

Anonymous wrote:https://www.nordstrom.com/s/sequin-ruffle-long-sleeve-cocktail-dress/7638365?origin=keywordsearch-personalizedsort&breadcrumb=Home%2FAll%20Results&color=681

lol

Cocktail swing dress with pockets. Pair with a cardigan.

$30. Comes in many colors. Amazon.

Only $30 on Amazon. Shorten the hem a bit if you want. Use the coverup for the ceremony and remove the coverup for the party.