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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I spend at least 1-3k a month. That would include gym/spa memberships, additional spa treatments and tips, hair salon trips and tips, hair care (products and blow outs) all beauty and grooming supplies, work out gear/clothing, day wear, evening wear, lounge wear, purses/small accessories, jewelry, watches, shoes, nails, spray tans (2-3x a month). It seems like a lot but it's fitting for our status and lifestyle. Some months it's less, other months more.

DH makes over 7 figures. I am a SAHW/M.

I'm 45.

Lol. Hon, you're a housewife. You have no status. Your DH does.

DH here in a similar lifestyle. My wife definitely has status. Her intellect, heart, kindness stand on their own. I would be where I am without her support. She is a lot smarter than me. And she is not ashamed to use the word housewife nothing derogatory about it.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I spend at least 1-3k a month. That would include gym/spa memberships, additional spa treatments and tips, hair salon trips and tips, hair care (products and blow outs) all beauty and grooming supplies, work out gear/clothing, day wear, evening wear, lounge wear, purses/small accessories, jewelry, watches, shoes, nails, spray tans (2-3x a month). It seems like a lot but it's fitting for our status and lifestyle. Some months it's less, other months more.

DH makes over 7 figures. I am a SAHW/M.

I'm 45.

Lol. Hon, you're a housewife. You have no status. Your DH does.

Anonymous wrote:Ozempic - $6,000 (and worth every penny)
Haircut every 6 weeks and highlight every 12 - $1500?
1 BBL treatment for discoloration - $500
Pedicures about 1x/month - $750
Cosmetics - maybe $400?

So $9-10k total?

HHI is over $1m

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Anonymous wrote:More than I would expect, given that i'm pretty low key and don't spend much time on beauty on a daily basis.

But $600 on botox every 4 months = $1800
$250 on hair cut and color every 8-10 weeks = around $1300
Gym = $20/month = $240
I have been trying to find the right combo of tret and moisturizer over the last year, so probably spent $500 last year on that
Other random makeup maybe $200. Maybe less?
$150 on a nice shampoo/conditioner brand
I spent $400 total last year on a couple treatments to get some spider veins zapped from the side of my nose.
No nails, facials, dental, or other random stuff. So I guess $4000 or so? Seems like a lot, but it's not a lot of appointments (less than 10 appts a year, for hair and botox), and I spend about 3 minutes a day on actual beauty stuff - wash my face, apply tret? People on this thread are going to say that, despite my claims above, i'm not low key, but i really feel like i spend way too little time on this and look disheveled most days. DH spends way more time (and maybe more money) on beauty than I do, and I wouldn't consider him super high maintenance either!

HHI around $2m, my income is around $1.2m of that.

Want to share??? I was just thinking this morning that I need a new moisturizer to pair with my tret. I have the perfect strength tret now for myself.

Anonymous wrote:Hair: about $700 for 2 colors and 3 cuts a year (I did less than this last year but should do that much ideally).

Botox: About $1,200 for the year (4x)

Makeup, Skincare, Shampoo, Lotions, etc...: probably $500 or $600 for the year

I do not get my nails done, or get spray tans, or belong to a gym, but we do have gym equipment at home.

I am sure I am forgetting a splurge here and there or a one off pedicure or massage. So maybe $3K a year?

41, HHI is a bit above $400K.

Anonymous wrote:More than I would expect, given that i'm pretty low key and don't spend much time on beauty on a daily basis.

But $600 on botox every 4 months = $1800
$250 on hair cut and color every 8-10 weeks = around $1300
Gym = $20/month = $240
I have been trying to find the right combo of tret and moisturizer over the last year, so probably spent $500 last year on that
Other random makeup maybe $200. Maybe less?
$150 on a nice shampoo/conditioner brand
I spent $400 total last year on a couple treatments to get some spider veins zapped from the side of my nose.
No nails, facials, dental, or other random stuff. So I guess $4000 or so? Seems like a lot, but it's not a lot of appointments (less than 10 appts a year, for hair and botox), and I spend about 3 minutes a day on actual beauty stuff - wash my face, apply tret? People on this thread are going to say that, despite my claims above, i'm not low key, but i really feel like i spend way too little time on this and look disheveled most days. DH spends way more time (and maybe more money) on beauty than I do, and I wouldn't consider him super high maintenance either!

HHI around $2m, my income is around $1.2m of that.

Anonymous wrote:Kind of unfair to loop in the gym with plastic surgery.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I spend at least 1-3k a month. That would include gym/spa memberships, additional spa treatments and tips, hair salon trips and tips, hair care (products and blow outs) all beauty and grooming supplies, work out gear/clothing, day wear, evening wear, lounge wear, purses/small accessories, jewelry, watches, shoes, nails, spray tans (2-3x a month). It seems like a lot but it's fitting for our status and lifestyle. Some months it's less, other months more.

DH makes over 7 figures. I am a SAHW/M.

I'm 45.

Lol. Hon, you're a housewife. You have no status. Your DH does.

You sound kind of jealous, status can be either social or professional.

NP what professional status does an unemployed person have?