Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I am a teacher too.
Weird question: Are you sure you started a dialogue?
Some parents have sent me messages this year that say things like, "Thank you for all you do. If you and your family have the time, (my child) has a game at XYZ arena this weekend (or is in a play, or will be singing at a Christmas church service) and admission is free. We hope to see you there!!
Then I see the parents and they saw it is an invite while I saw it as "for your situational awareness".
Others ask, "Is Tuesday PE uniform day" and I see it Wednesday, so....
One strategy I don't hate is when people call the office, and say, "I am not sure Mrs. AwesomeTeacher saw my email, but I am calling to tell her the dog ate my kid's math book," and that gets stuck in my mailbox or delivered.
Our policy is 24 hours (on work days) and I try to adhere to that. I don't respond to emails where parents ask me to donate money to a cause/sign a petition or to buy something to support their child's extracurricular activities.
I will ask the child about their interests, but I don't use my pay to subsidize luxury interests.
OP: Not trying to put you in the hot seat, but some well-intentioned emails can be hard collect the most polite words with which to respond.
Other times I did not respond right away: Covid (2nd time), brain injury (no screens), funeral, my own family member being in crisis, when I knew they asked the same question of a colleague and were setting me up for fight without telling me.
I surely hope you are not working in my kids’ school. Keep blaming parents.
Anonymous wrote:I am a teacher too.
Weird question: Are you sure you started a dialogue?
Some parents have sent me messages this year that say things like, "Thank you for all you do. If you and your family have the time, (my child) has a game at XYZ arena this weekend (or is in a play, or will be singing at a Christmas church service) and admission is free. We hope to see you there!!
Then I see the parents and they saw it is an invite while I saw it as "for your situational awareness".
Others ask, "Is Tuesday PE uniform day" and I see it Wednesday, so....
One strategy I don't hate is when people call the office, and say, "I am not sure Mrs. AwesomeTeacher saw my email, but I am calling to tell her the dog ate my kid's math book," and that gets stuck in my mailbox or delivered.
Our policy is 24 hours (on work days) and I try to adhere to that. I don't respond to emails where parents ask me to donate money to a cause/sign a petition or to buy something to support their child's extracurricular activities.
I will ask the child about their interests, but I don't use my pay to subsidize luxury interests.
OP: Not trying to put you in the hot seat, but some well-intentioned emails can be hard collect the most polite words with which to respond.
Other times I did not respond right away: Covid (2nd time), brain injury (no screens), funeral, my own family member being in crisis, when I knew they asked the same question of a colleague and were setting me up for fight without telling me.
Anonymous wrote:I am not sure what is the common expectation to hear back from a teacher? Is it a few business days or a week?
Thanks.
Anonymous wrote:I think you should email the next level above the teacher if you do not hear back. If your school has division heads or department heads go there before HOS.
A good HOS will forward the email to the appropriate supervisor, but some will cause more trouble for the teacher than you probably have in mind.
If you have reason to believe that the teacher is intentionally ignoring you, by all means go nuclear.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:If I’ve sent 2 emails and not gotten response, I would make sure they aren’t out of the school sick or anything. And then email HOS.
I did this once and it turns out the teacher thought she had addressed my questions by speaking to my kid instead of replying via email to me. Not a big deal; everyone was fine about it. I know teachers are busy teaching and email is not always the top priority. But my kid is my top priority and needed help, so I found a way to get a response.
Thank you all for the kind replies. I guess that I never had this kind of experience before. So far, I have not heard back from this teacher. I will wait till Thursday and then email HoS. Nothing too dreadful I hope. I thought it would have been an easy email. I triple checked today to make sure the email address is correct.![]()
Wait! Have you emailed the teacher a second time? If not, send a brief email "hi! Just circling back on this..." don't report the teacher to the HOS. You're going to appear crazy and the teacher won't be super pleased with you. Give the second email 24 hours--Then email the divisional head.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:If I’ve sent 2 emails and not gotten response, I would make sure they aren’t out of the school sick or anything. And then email HOS.
I did this once and it turns out the teacher thought she had addressed my questions by speaking to my kid instead of replying via email to me. Not a big deal; everyone was fine about it. I know teachers are busy teaching and email is not always the top priority. But my kid is my top priority and needed help, so I found a way to get a response.
Thank you all for the kind replies. I guess that I never had this kind of experience before. So far, I have not heard back from this teacher. I will wait till Thursday and then email HoS. Nothing too dreadful I hope. I thought it would have been an easy email. I triple checked today to make sure the email address is correct.![]()