Anonymous wrote:Is there an influencer or a celebrity to follow for such looks. OP can just get her tips there.

#oldmoneybeauty

Is there an influencer or a celebrity to follow for such looks. OP can just get her tips there.

Anonymous wrote:I have a couple acquaintances from fabulously wealthy families and they simply don’t give a damn how they look. They don’t have to care! Male attention has literally no upside for them at all! They look healthy and well groomed but seemingly think anything beyond that is simply not worth their time and effort.

I’m sure it would be different if they had married into the money.

This. And many times when one marries “in”, they assimilate as they grow more secure.
Neat, groomed, nothing flashy.

Lose weight, get chemical peels, wear flattering understated clothes and accessories. Look effortless.

Anonymous wrote:Cashmere sweaters, neutral colors, great skin, classics coat, subtle jewelry, great hair, effortless look. Not like you’re trying too hard.

The Queen mostly wore vivid colors. Kate also wears lots of bright colors.

lose weight, have excellent hair, teeth, skin and natural nails. Not overly made up; be a natural beauty; use correct grammar and modulate your voice.

Anonymous wrote:Botox

Only subtle botox. We actually make fun of duck lips behind their back.

Anonymous wrote:Are you wealthy? The upkeep is time and $$

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I'm wealthy and have the look. The secret is to:
1. BE THIN
2. Pair very expensive things with cheap things - i.e. my $400 shoes with a well fitted dress from Target I got for sale $15 and tailored.
3. Subtle REAL jewelry, e.g., diamond studs- never cz
4. Always dress for your figure. Never wear 'sweat pants'. Aviator Nation make folks look like they're wearing a giant diaper, so I don't get why people would pay money to look that way

But mostly be thin and fit!

Anonymous wrote:Just be really thin and have a blow out.

This works too!

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Anonymous wrote:There are a lot of versions of “elite.”

OP how you do envision "elite"?

OP here. I suppose my inspiration are some of the following women:




Obiously, fitness and thinness is striking. Along with great hair.

Youth & Plastic Surgery

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Neither actually. Straight, silky hair and healthy skin over a slim, fit, figure with fitted conservative clothes. No long nails, overly bleached hair or too much makeup. The secret to WASP make up is to 'make it look like you're not wearing any at all'. One exception - if you're black - natural hair is appropriate as long as it's clean and healthy; never hair extensions. For naturally curly white girls - you're screwed - learn how to straighten it by puberty.

Also invest in your teeth as well if that’s something you’ve neglected. Regular dental checkups, regular flossing, Invisalign, whitening if needed. They shouldn’t be gaudy or distracting but just part of an overall package.

Cashmere sweaters, neutral colors, great skin, classics coat, subtle jewelry, great hair, effortless look. Not like you’re trying too hard.

Botox

Anonymous wrote:Tons of professional skin treatments and a good daily routine. Clean white teeth. BMI under 21. Have your own style that flatters your body but most importantly you need to look comfortable and not like you’re playing dress up. A lot of being wealthy is being comfortable in your own skin and if you look like you’re trying then that’s not it.

What kind of skin treatments?

Tons of professional skin treatments and a good daily routine. Clean white teeth. BMI under 21. Have your own style that flatters your body but most importantly you need to look comfortable and not like you’re playing dress up. A lot of being wealthy is being comfortable in your own skin and if you look like you’re trying then that’s not it.