Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I retired at 63.
I worked with colleagues of all ages. My close team of 10 were ages 35-64. We got along but I did feel that the younger people wanted our jobs (if I left it opened up a promotion, which one of them did get). I also had noted a few people who stayed too long (67 and 69 years old) who got bitter/assholish and daffy/absent-minded, respectively, along with a couple of other people who died a month or two after retirement. I didn't want to become these people.
I was happy with my job but started to feel like I was treading water at age 59. When I realized I didn't enjoy doing my favorite parts of the job and felt stressed out, I decided to go. I planned it for a year, not telling anyone. I gave my notice three months in advance. Having that plan made the last year much easier and gave me a third wind.
My house was paid off a year before I left, I had enough in retirement and decided it was okay to go. Thank goodness for that. I am happy with the decision. I thought I would work longer, but I didn't.
Oftentimes younger employees want their bosses' jobs, but for the wrong reasons. They look at such higher-level jobs as a "reward" for their hard work. Furthermore, many younger employees use the phrase "rest and vest" to describe older employees collecting lucrative stock options and RSUs who they perceive as not working as hard as them. Yet what such younger employees fail to see is the 20+ years of hard work it took to get there - the same work they're putting in now. Gen X felt this way about Baby Boomers who lived it up in the 1980s and wouldn't get out of the way in the early-2000s. This led to a compression and in some cases promotions skipped Gen X and were given directly to Gen Y, causing even more resentment.
While there is no magic age for retirement, it does seem like 60 years old is a common age for folks to hang it up. For those who want to keep working, companies need to determine whether they're still providing value. If not, then it's time to let them go (see above bolded).
Anonymous wrote:I retired at 63.
I worked with colleagues of all ages. My close team of 10 were ages 35-64. We got along but I did feel that the younger people wanted our jobs (if I left it opened up a promotion, which one of them did get). I also had noted a few people who stayed too long (67 and 69 years old) who got bitter/assholish and daffy/absent-minded, respectively, along with a couple of other people who died a month or two after retirement. I didn't want to become these people.
I was happy with my job but started to feel like I was treading water at age 59. When I realized I didn't enjoy doing my favorite parts of the job and felt stressed out, I decided to go. I planned it for a year, not telling anyone. I gave my notice three months in advance. Having that plan made the last year much easier and gave me a third wind.
My house was paid off a year before I left, I had enough in retirement and decided it was okay to go. Thank goodness for that. I am happy with the decision. I thought I would work longer, but I didn't.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My husband is 60 and works for a biotech start-up. He brings the necessary experience and troubleshooting expertise.
Your husband is a man, obviously. The ageism that woman face is a thousandfold more. Rather like black women face significantly more issues than white men.
There are plenty of studies out there that support this.
Are you OP?
Why did you feel the need to attack this poster? Nothing in your title or first post asked about the experience of women, specifically, or non-white women in particular.
Calm down.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My husband is 60 and works for a biotech start-up. He brings the necessary experience and troubleshooting expertise.
Your husband is a man, obviously. The ageism that woman face is a thousandfold more. Rather like black women face significantly more issues than white men.
There are plenty of studies out there that support this.
Anonymous wrote:I’m in communications and was at the same job from age 39 to 58. It wasn’t a bad job, but I figured that if I didn’t look for something else, it would be the one I’d retire from, and I’d never know what else was out there.
Surprisingly, I got a new job fairly easily at an association, but it was a terrible fit, even though I thought it would be good. There was a range of ages, although a majority seemed to be in their 30s.
So at 60 I moved on to another communications job. I have been the oldest person on my team for the last three years. That really hasn’t been a problem, but I’m just tired of the general office politics, ever-shifting priorities of managers and the general annoyances that make work difficult. I’m hoping to retire at 65 and keep my side consulting jobs, which I really like.
Anonymous wrote:I am on the faculty of a medical school. I have much less energy now, and patience for the younger generation of students (many if whom are whiney and entitled).
Anonymous wrote:DH is 65. He's a gov lawyer in an SES position. He absolutely loves it and has for many years and doesn't have plans to retire even though he's eligible.
I am 53 and I write and work with med students (and used to practice law). I imagine I'll be doing something else in my 60s, but I change up careers every decade or so--it is just who I am.