I am happy with my friends because I figure out the right doses where I enjoy and don't feel drained. Some people dump me because I don't see them as much as they expect and that is fine. They were people I could only handle in small doses due to drama so it's fine.

I wish I could find chill, “drop in” friends. Like, we don’t have to be close, but we can get together and shoot the shh, have a meal, a drink, and that’s it.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You guys might want to revisit the definition of “friend.” You’re supposed to enjoy them! The people you have to see, whether you like them or not? That’s family.

In other words, if the friendship isn’t working anymore, move on….

Moved on in 2022 from some friendships that weren’t working. Some keeping up with the Joneses controlling types. Best decision ever.

Same, in 2023. I’m so much happier.

+1

South Asians are so like this I hate it.