Anonymous wrote:Your daughter's behavior goes against all of that. Here is what I would suggest: First, put your foot down and make it clear that this relationship with the Indian boyfriend is unacceptable. Their inappropriate interactions and his encouragement of lewd behavior is corrupting your daughter's morals and virtue. Insist that she ends things with him immediately. Second, restrict her access to social media and the internet. All that idle time spent seeking empty validation and attention is clearly damaging. Limit her phone and computer use and encourage real-world social interaction with friends of good moral character. Third, consider transferring her to a private religious college or university. Public secular campuses today are hotbeds of liberal indoctrination that warp young minds. At a conservative Christian school, she will be exposed to proper values and learn discipline. Finally, do not hesitate to lay down strict rules and harsh punishment if she continues to rebel. While she may protest, you are acting in her best interest. Remind her of her duty to family and faith. With a firm guiding hand, you can steer her back to the righteous path. Compromise and permissiveness will only make the situation worse. Stand strong, set clear rules and consequences, limit bad influences, and instill good conservative virtues. With diligent parenting, you can turn your daughter's life around.

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Anonymous wrote:What does him being Indian have anything to do with it? The fact you started with that makes me think you might be scapegoating her struggles on him… and unfairly.

I would not mention the relationship AT ALLL but bring up your concerns about her GPA separately.

NP. I wondered if OP meant that he was an online international boyfriend. You are correct that the specific nationality shouldn't matter, but if it's an online relationship only that certainly seems a little scammy.

Anonymous wrote:My daughter, a freshman in college, currently has an Indian boyfriend. I've recently discovered that she's been sending him many inappropriate photos. He encourages her to do so, and she seems deeply invested in this relationship. She almost has no personal life, constantly updating social media, even when there's no substantial content, just to grab attention. Her first semester ended at very low GPA. Despite our efforts and the time and energy we've invested in her, she remains rebellious and unwilling to listen to us. I just want to protect her and help her see the reality of the situation, allowing her to understand how to safeguard herself. How should I approach advising her?

Anonymous wrote:Your daughter's behavior goes against all of that. Here is what I would suggest: First, put your foot down and make it clear that this relationship with the Indian boyfriend is unacceptable. Their inappropriate interactions and his encouragement of lewd behavior is corrupting your daughter's morals and virtue. Insist that she ends things with him immediately. Second, restrict her access to social media and the internet. All that idle time spent seeking empty validation and attention is clearly damaging. Limit her phone and computer use and encourage real-world social interaction with friends of good moral character. Third, consider transferring her to a private religious college or university. Public secular campuses today are hotbeds of liberal indoctrination that warp young minds. At a conservative Christian school, she will be exposed to proper values and learn discipline. Finally, do not hesitate to lay down strict rules and harsh punishment if she continues to rebel. While she may protest, you are acting in her best interest. Remind her of her duty to family and faith. With a firm guiding hand, you can steer her back to the righteous path. Compromise and permissiveness will only make the situation worse. Stand strong, set clear rules and consequences, limit bad influences, and instill good conservative virtues. With diligent parenting, you can turn your daughter's life around.

Anonymous wrote:sit down with your daughter and have a serious heart-to-heart talk. Express your concern for her in a caring but firm manner. Explain how her current path is damaging and will lead nowhere good. Set clear rules and consequences to curb inappropriate behavior, like sending lewd photos. She may protest, but stand your ground - you are doing this out of love.

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Confiscate her phone and limit social media access. Those outlets are clearly being used irresponsibly and distracting her from her studies and real life. Cut them off until she proves she can handle them responsibly.

Put an immediate end to this inappropriate relationship. That Indian boy is clearly a bad influence and will only continue to corrupt your daughter's morals. Forbid her from seeing or contacting him.

Lay down strict rules and consequences for misbehavior. Curfews, dress codes, no dating - whatever it takes. She has lost her privileges and needs to earn them back through good behavior.

Anonymous wrote:Race has never been an issue for me. I have some great Indian friends. My concern are more with the pictures and her grades. It hits my bottom line, but it seems that in today's culture, the pictures might not be a big issue, which surprises me once again.

Anonymous wrote:Your daughter's behavior goes against all of that. Here is what I would suggest: First, put your foot down and make it clear that this relationship with the Indian boyfriend is unacceptable. Their inappropriate interactions and his encouragement of lewd behavior is corrupting your daughter's morals and virtue. Insist that she ends things with him immediately. Second, restrict her access to social media and the internet. All that idle time spent seeking empty validation and attention is clearly damaging. Limit her phone and computer use and encourage real-world social interaction with friends of good moral character. Third, consider transferring her to a private religious college or university. Public secular campuses today are hotbeds of liberal indoctrination that warp young minds. At a conservative Christian school, she will be exposed to proper values and learn discipline. Finally, do not hesitate to lay down strict rules and harsh punishment if she continues to rebel. While she may protest, you are acting in her best interest. Remind her of her duty to family and faith. With a firm guiding hand, you can steer her back to the righteous path. Compromise and permissiveness will only make the situation worse. Stand strong, set clear rules and consequences, limit bad influences, and instill good conservative virtues. With diligent parenting, you can turn your daughter's life around.