Anonymous wrote:I had a stalker in college that called my dorm room everyday. He would describe what I was wearing that day and proceed to talk to me sexually. I had to unplug my phone b/c he would keep calling back. It was terrifying to realize this person saw me everyday but I didn't know him. Campus police couldn't do anything b/c he had not physically harmed me.
Wow, for a split second I thought I wrote this. I also had a stalker in college—would call the second I got to my dorm room, throughout the day, late at night. It was horrible—I couldn’t sleep, didn’t know whom I could trust on campus. Eventually he called from an outside line instead of internally, and campus police caught him that way through a number trace.
The Dean of Students allowed him to write an apology letter as punishment. Which he did, in crayon, and taped it to my dorm room door. Campus police flipped out that she let him do that.
He was asked to leave for the remainder of that semester but then allowed to come back because he was “remorseful”.
I was 20 and didn’t know enough to complain/escalate about her handling.