Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:If you are friends on social media, message her "I've been dreaming a lot about your mom lately for some reason, so you've been on my mind. How are you?"
I would do this, and just check in on your friend.
Anonymous wrote:I would want to know if I were your friend! It would bring me comfort to feel like she was still out there and cared and was connected to me somehow.
Anonymous wrote:I promise I'm not crazy. Just an average mid 30s busy working mom who has never talked to anyone about this.
I had a best friend from kindergarten to 8th grade. We went to different high schools and eventually drifted midway through HS. Her mom died very suddenly when we were in 8th grade and were super close at the time. The mom has been "with" me every since- in my dreams, I see her out of the corner of my eye VERY distinctly several times per year for the last 20+ years, I don't know how to explain it but she like nags my thoughts every few years.
I've always just ignored it. But the last week it will not stop. I keep thinking or dreaming of her holding a baby and have the overwhelming feeling/nagging thoughts that the old friend either recently lost a baby and the mom "has it" or she is struggling to get pregnant and the mom is....idk holding the baby and about to "send it down"? I absolutely realize how ridiculous this sounds.
Do I continue to ignore or message the former friend on social media like a crazy lady? 🤪
(fwiw I've unintentionally received and delivered "messages" before several times from other people but I avoid this all and pretend it doesn't exist in my life)
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Please don't do this.
Just let her know you're thinking about her and her lovely mom.
Yeah, I wouldn’t burden your friend but this a nice message.
You have a gift OP!
Anonymous wrote:Please don't do this.
Just let her know you're thinking about her and her lovely mom.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:If you are friends on social media, message her "I've been dreaming a lot about your mom lately for some reason, so you've been on my mind. How are you?"
I would do this, and just check in on your friend.
Anonymous wrote:If you are friends on social media, message her "I've been dreaming a lot about your mom lately for some reason, so you've been on my mind. How are you?"
Anonymous wrote:Your dreams are your own subconscious thoughts. You’re not receiving messages from your childhood friend’s dead mom.
Please do not involve this woman in whatever you think is happening here.