Dicipline early to prevent chaos

Timeouts is punishment.
123 magic is treating the kid like an aggressor already. Anticipating it's gonna do something bad, etc.

None of them are permitted in any childcare establishment

Timeouts are not permitted in Maryland and Virginia.
Says the child care resource centers that gives licences to daycare providers, center directors and any childcare educational establishment

Let the kid cry. Nobody can calm a kid.
Just like adults, they need to cry and will calm down eventually

Talk to your kid, be angry but not act on it. Come play when you're calm.

I say it in Spanish. Acknowledging their feeling is not giving them stuff or spoiling them. Sometimes we need a quiet calm space to calm down

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:123 magic and timeouts are banned from every childcare settings like schools, centers and daycares
Those methods hurts the child's BRAIN

OP, your child needs to learn to respect their elders. You can't have her forever in a bubble until she's 99 years old

Wait, what?? My teenager still complies with 123 magic!

That's because you shrunk her brain! /s

Anonymous wrote:123 magic and timeouts are banned from every childcare settings like schools, centers and daycares
Those methods hurts the child's BRAIN

OP, your child needs to learn to respect their elders. You can't have her forever in a bubble until she's 99 years old

Wait, what?? My teenager still complies with 123 magic!

Anonymous wrote:Virginia bans timeouts too

No, they don't. Did you actually hear that somewhere, or are you just spreading information?

You're probably just a troll. But if you're not, the only thing I can think of is that you're very confused about the difference between timeouts and seclusion. They're very, very different.

Anonymous wrote:123 magic and timeouts are banned from every childcare settings like schools, centers and daycares
Those methods hurts the child's BRAIN

OP, your child needs to learn to respect their elders. You can't have her forever in a bubble until she's 99 years old

No they're not and no they don't.

Tell them it is OK to throw toys in the mirror. Tell them it is OK to bite their sister. Tell them it is OK to throw a plate on the floor. Tell them it is OK to scream to get things. Yeah, no time outs. You sound a bit weird, PP

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:123 magic and timeouts are banned from every childcare settings like schools, centers and daycares
Those methods hurts the child's BRAIN

OP, your child needs to learn to respect their elders. You can't have her forever in a bubble until she's 99 years old

oh FFS how does sitting quietly hurt a childs brain?

PP read it in a parenting book, therefore it must be true.

123 Magic and timeouts worked great for my toddler. She’s now 11 and in the competitive magnet program for gifted students, and a super sweet kid. I think her brain came out ok.

Childcare resource center recommends to not use timeouts or 123 magic, etc.
Talk to your kid that it's ok to be sad, be angry. Let them to calm down in a safe space

Timeouts is punishment. It shrinks the brain like smoke