Anonymous
11/30/2023 10:15
Subject: Re:Why are so many younger men trying to date women 30s and up?
Don’t men reach their sexual peak in their mid 20s and women in their mid late 30’s. If so that’s a collision worth having!
Anonymous
11/30/2023 10:10
Subject: Why are so many younger men trying to date women 30s and up?
I think they've caught on that we are amazing in bed.
Anonymous
11/30/2023 10:07
Subject: Why are so many younger men trying to date women 30s and up?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:38yo divorced mom and I have noticed the same thing!! It’s crazy!! The 25yos are so into me. It’s very much not mutual LOL. I’m not even up for dating at the moment but if I were I’d be looking for a man similar to me, ie late 30s to late 40s who already did the marriage and kids thing and not looking to create another family. But I’m fighting off the 25yos with a damn stick!! (My job and hobbies are all tech related so I meet a ton of them)
It also may be down to the way millennials are aging. For a while people were saying that "people are just looking younger now" but then Gen Z came along. There has been a lot of discourse about Gen Z looking older, and now it's starting to look more and more like millennials were some weird anomaly generation that looks quite a bit younger than their actual ages. (Who knows why?) A lot of the men just probably think you're hot and look good and arent even aware of your age, arent trying to date older but you look good (you might even look younger than women their age, if Tiktok is any indication!)
The only place I really see a lot of Gen Z women is church, and my impression is that they just don’t seem to care a ton about their looks. They are not worrying that much about their hair, makeup, flattering clothes, nails, none of it. A higher proportion of them also appear to be overweight. Even my husband has noticed it, which means it’s REALLY noticeable. The millennial women are all putting in a much bigger effort and I don’t know if we look younger, but if you make an effort to look your best, you tend to look attractive.
Anonymous
11/30/2023 09:46
Subject: Why are so many younger men trying to date women 30s and up?
Did you have sex with your dates OP?
Anonymous
11/30/2023 09:44
Subject: Why are so many younger men trying to date women 30s and up?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:38yo divorced mom and I have noticed the same thing!! It’s crazy!! The 25yos are so into me. It’s very much not mutual LOL. I’m not even up for dating at the moment but if I were I’d be looking for a man similar to me, ie late 30s to late 40s who already did the marriage and kids thing and not looking to create another family. But I’m fighting off the 25yos with a damn stick!! (My job and hobbies are all tech related so I meet a ton of them)
My 25 years old son is a physical trainer and he told me, his father, that he is currently sleeping with seven different women who are in their mid to late 30’s with no intention of having a LTR with them. When I asked him why, his response was because they are low hanging fruit.
Troll - no 25 year old is going to tell his father he is sleeping with seven different women.
Anonymous
11/30/2023 09:44
Subject: Why are so many younger men trying to date women 30s and up?
Anonymous wrote:38yo divorced mom and I have noticed the same thing!! It’s crazy!! The 25yos are so into me. It’s very much not mutual LOL. I’m not even up for dating at the moment but if I were I’d be looking for a man similar to me, ie late 30s to late 40s who already did the marriage and kids thing and not looking to create another family. But I’m fighting off the 25yos with a damn stick!! (My job and hobbies are all tech related so I meet a ton of them)
It also may be down to the way millennials are aging. For a while people were saying that "people are just looking younger now" but then Gen Z came along. There has been a lot of discourse about Gen Z looking older, and now it's starting to look more and more like millennials were some weird anomaly generation that looks quite a bit younger than their actual ages. (Who knows why?) A lot of the men just probably think you're hot and look good and arent even aware of your age, arent trying to date older but you look good (you might even look younger than women their age, if Tiktok is any indication!)
Anonymous
11/30/2023 09:43
Subject: Why are so many younger men trying to date women 30s and up?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:38yo divorced mom and I have noticed the same thing!! It’s crazy!! The 25yos are so into me. It’s very much not mutual LOL. I’m not even up for dating at the moment but if I were I’d be looking for a man similar to me, ie late 30s to late 40s who already did the marriage and kids thing and not looking to create another family. But I’m fighting off the 25yos with a damn stick!! (My job and hobbies are all tech related so I meet a ton of them)
My 25 years old son is a physical trainer and he told me, his father, that he is currently sleeping with seven different women who are in their mid to late 30’s with no intention of having a LTR with them. When I asked him why, his response was because they are low hanging fruit.
Your son sounds like a degenerate loser, lol. How embarrassing for you as a parent. And why does he have to go after women he perceives as "low hanging fruit"?
Anonymous
11/30/2023 09:43
Subject: Why are so many younger men trying to date women 30s and up?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:38yo divorced mom and I have noticed the same thing!! It’s crazy!! The 25yos are so into me. It’s very much not mutual LOL. I’m not even up for dating at the moment but if I were I’d be looking for a man similar to me, ie late 30s to late 40s who already did the marriage and kids thing and not looking to create another family. But I’m fighting off the 25yos with a damn stick!! (My job and hobbies are all tech related so I meet a ton of them)
My 25 years old son is a physical trainer and he told me, his father, that he is currently sleeping with seven different women who are in their mid to late 30’s with no intention of having a LTR with them. When I asked him why, his response was because they are low hanging fruit.
So he can only get low hanging fruit. Lol. If he could get higher he would. That says a lot about him...
Men always go for the best they can get.
Anonymous
11/30/2023 09:41
Subject: Why are so many younger men trying to date women 30s and up?
Anonymous wrote:38yo divorced mom and I have noticed the same thing!! It’s crazy!! The 25yos are so into me. It’s very much not mutual LOL. I’m not even up for dating at the moment but if I were I’d be looking for a man similar to me, ie late 30s to late 40s who already did the marriage and kids thing and not looking to create another family. But I’m fighting off the 25yos with a damn stick!! (My job and hobbies are all tech related so I meet a ton of them)
My 25 years old son is a physical trainer and he told me, his father, that he is currently sleeping with seven different women who are in their mid to late 30’s with no intention of having a LTR with them. When I asked him why, his response was because they are low hanging fruit.
Anonymous
11/30/2023 09:35
Subject: Why are so many younger men trying to date women 30s and up?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Money
How many times do men have to tell you on here that they dont care about money/dont give an F about a woman's job? In fact, a woman making lots of money can even work against her sometimes... men want the kindergarten teacher, not the CEO.
+1
Far fewer men than women care about money. Some women are money hungry, that is literally all they think about - men are not like that.
Exactly. If a man is pursuing a woman, you can bet it's because he thinks she's hot and wants to have sex with her. Same reason men are "nice". Men are very self interested creatures, they dont tend to do things benevolently or even with much long term strategy the way women might
Anonymous
11/30/2023 09:34
Subject: Why are so many younger men trying to date women 30s and up?
38yo divorced mom and I have noticed the same thing!! It’s crazy!! The 25yos are so into me. It’s very much not mutual LOL. I’m not even up for dating at the moment but if I were I’d be looking for a man similar to me, ie late 30s to late 40s who already did the marriage and kids thing and not looking to create another family. But I’m fighting off the 25yos with a damn stick!! (My job and hobbies are all tech related so I meet a ton of them)
Anonymous
11/30/2023 09:33
Subject: Re:Why are so many younger men trying to date women 30s and up?
I don’t think they target women in their 30’s, it’s likely they are responding to an attractive profile regardless of age. You should be pleased that it’s not just older guys who have an interest in you. If mid 20s is too young for you take a pass. But you might miss out on some fun.
Anonymous
11/30/2023 09:27
Subject: Why are so many younger men trying to date women 30s and up?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Money
How many times do men have to tell you on here that they dont care about money/dont give an F about a woman's job? In fact, a woman making lots of money can even work against her sometimes... men want the kindergarten teacher, not the CEO.
+1
Far fewer men than women care about money. Some women are money hungry, that is literally all they think about - men are not like that.
Anonymous
11/30/2023 09:21
Subject: Why are so many younger men trying to date women 30s and up?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I got hit on several guys in late twenties and early thirties. One who walked the same direction and tried to pick me up late night was 21. I told him that I could be his mother, but he said:" but you are not". True.
There are several things happening I think. Girls their age want a model and/or a rich guy.
Women in late 30s and 40s look better than previous generations. I asked several of them how old they think I was and most were off ten year or even more.
Most were complete gentelmen. Three walked me to my car which was two miles away and paid for the empanadas in Adams Morgan as we were all starving.
Not going out with any of them, but definitely dancing and talking if they come up to me in a bar.
Wow, they paid for a Julia’s Empanada? A whole one plus a peach dessert empanada? That’s a high roller.
Do you even remember what it was like to be in your early 20s on a college budget, grandpa?
Anonymous
11/30/2023 09:20
Subject: Why are so many younger men trying to date women 30s and up?
Anonymous wrote:I got hit on several guys in late twenties and early thirties. One who walked the same direction and tried to pick me up late night was 21. I told him that I could be his mother, but he said:" but you are not". True.
There are several things happening I think. Girls their age want a model and/or a rich guy.
Women in late 30s and 40s look better than previous generations. I asked several of them how old they think I was and most were off ten year or even more.
Most were complete gentelmen. Three walked me to my car which was two miles away and paid for the empanadas in Adams Morgan as we were all starving.
Not going out with any of them, but definitely dancing and talking if they come up to me in a bar.
Wow, they paid for a Julia’s Empanada? A whole one plus a peach dessert empanada? That’s a high roller.