Anonymous
Post 11/30/2023 16:24     Subject: kissing frequency and technique
Anonymous wrote:After being married decades, I don't passionatly kiss my spouse frequently. After thinking about it, I I am interested to hear how often others make out? Back on topic, I cannot stand the way my spouse kisses. Not only is it uncomfortable, but I cannot wait for it to end. Years ago I would put in some effort so it was neutral, but now I am not sure what to do excecy avoid avoid the situation. I am afraid they are untrainable after all these years + stubborn + do not take hints or instruction / guidance well.


Really, only as part of sexual intercourse.
Anonymous
Post 11/30/2023 16:23     Subject: Re:kissing frequency and technique
The past two GFs I’ve had do some kind of super aggressive, lizard tongue thing where they basically want to spar with my tongue. It took a bit of getting use to. We made out like that pretty much every time we saw each other (2-3 times a week). It didn’t always lead to sex.
Anonymous
Post 11/30/2023 14:06     Subject: Re:kissing frequency and technique
I was never much of a kisser when I was young which may be why I was a virgin until I was 22. Even with my now DH I wasn’t very good at it early on but I think I’ve gotten much better over time. I wasn’t big on tongue in mouth but now I really enjoy it and have happily moved onto to other things.
Anonymous
Post 11/30/2023 12:42     Subject: kissing frequency and technique
Anonymous wrote:Kissing is something you vet up front. I just started seeing someone and can’t stop kissing him it is so perfect.


Yes, I have stopped seeing people because they were bad kissers.
Anonymous
Post 11/30/2023 11:41     Subject: kissing frequency and technique
After 15 years, we definitely still make out, but it's either before or while ducking.

We kiss each other on the lips often though. I think it's important for kids to see their parents holding hands and kissing goodbye, being affectionate. We like to model a healthy marriage.
Anonymous
Post 11/30/2023 11:21     Subject: kissing frequency and technique
I was with a new man last night and he hates kissing. It was such a letdown. Kissing is intimate.
Anonymous
Post 11/30/2023 05:54     Subject: kissing frequency and technique
Anonymous wrote:We give each other lots of pecks throughout the day but rarely make out unless we're having sex. I'm the DW and I'm good with that. I adore my husband but I had a boyfriend when I was in college who was THE BEST kisser ever and made everyone I've kissed afterward (including DH) pale in comparison.


What made your ex boyfriend so good at kissing compared to everyone else?
Anonymous
Post 11/30/2023 01:44     Subject: kissing frequency and technique
Anonymous wrote:We give each other lots of pecks throughout the day but rarely make out unless we're having sex. I'm the DW and I'm good with that. I adore my husband but I had a boyfriend when I was in college who was THE BEST kisser ever and made everyone I've kissed afterward (including DH) pale in comparison.


Twice in my life I have Od from kissing alone; once in high school and once when I was 28.
Anonymous
Post 11/29/2023 18:08     Subject: kissing frequency and technique
Anonymous wrote:I'm a guy, and I have found that in general, men like to go deeper and stronger and women like kissing more subtly. From a kissing standpoint, it seems like men were made for men and women for women. So in heterosexual relationships, there's got to be some give and take.

Nope. I’m a woman and I like to be kissed passionately. My partner kisses so soft and timid it drives me crazy. I try to lead the way but he doesn’t follow.
Anonymous
Post 11/29/2023 17:10     Subject: kissing frequency and technique
Anonymous wrote:Making out always leads to sex for us.


If I give my husband a nice kiss, I don’t consider that making out. But if we are sitting on the couch and one kiss leads to another I agree with you. A good night kiss in bed that lasts more than a second or two means game on.
Anonymous
Post 11/29/2023 16:39     Subject: kissing frequency and technique
Making out always leads to sex for us.
Anonymous
Post 11/29/2023 16:26     Subject: kissing frequency and technique
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Kissing is hard. I never learned and nobody is willing to teach. I even asked in another anon forum and all I got was joke replies.


Aw, kissing is easy. Just taste first with your tongue, don’t put the whole thing in there; feel their lips with yours; if it’s right it’s easy.


NP. This is like explaining how to paint a Seurat. You can describe the technique, but being good takes a combination of innate skill, intuition, and lots of practice. I agree with the PP that this isn’t something people want to be practiced on.


I’m never going to learn! So depressing!