Anonymous wrote:This would have been a dream come true when I was in middle school. She is pretty attractive from the one picture I see. Not sure why the victim comes forward now.

I’ve heard a variation of this comment a million times over the years, a man thinking that they would have been glad for this to happen to them as teenagers, but you are only speculating that you would have liked it. You don’t know what you would have felt, because it didn’t happen to you. You have no idea what it would have been like, or the aftermath it might have had later in your life.

Anonymous wrote:This would have been a dream come true when I was in middle school. She is pretty attractive from the one picture I see. Not sure why the victim comes forward now.

???????

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Anonymous wrote:This would have been a dream come true when I was in middle school. She is pretty attractive from the one picture I see. Not sure why the victim comes forward now.

You are sick and your attempt at normalizing an adult woman sleeping with a middle schooler is no doubt your twisted way of coping with your own childhood traumas. Seek therapy. This is not normal.

I don't know about the adult. But I know if you ask 100 middle school 8th grade boys at least 90 would fool around with hot teacher if you know you wont be caught. It's a classic male fantasy.

It's a fantasy because they are consumed with sexual thoughts and feelings but at that age they have no idea what the actual effect on them and their sexuality not only as a young teen but going forward as an older teen and later as an adult will be. I know a guy who was seduced by a teacher when he was 16, he never revealed that to anyone until recently, he is now late 40s. He sees now how that experience warped his development and views on sexuality well into his adulthood and caused a lot of problems for him. He's hasn't reported her to any authority and won't even name her, he is just sharing his experience with friends. He fully admits he was flattered and willing when it happened but that is definitely not the whole story.

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Anonymous wrote:This would have been a dream come true when I was in middle school. She is pretty attractive from the one picture I see. Not sure why the victim comes forward now.

You are sick and your attempt at normalizing an adult woman sleeping with a middle schooler is no doubt your twisted way of coping with your own childhood traumas. Seek therapy. This is not normal.

I don't know about the adult. But I know if you ask 100 middle school 8th grade boys at least 90 would fool around with hot teacher if you know you wont be caught. It's a classic male fantasy.

There are lots of teenage girls who will tell you they developed crushes on their male teachers too, particularly if those teachers were under 30 and conventionally handsome.

And yet, somehow, I bet you won’t call it “a classic female fantasy” and waste bandwidth and data trying normalize sexual relations between a teacher and their student.

Your awfulness is showing. Do something different.

Anonymous wrote:It’s (also) terrible when men do this but I understand why they do it, because they can’t get adult women. But why do women do this? Why throw your life away to get with a child, when you can have your pick of adult men who would spoil you for the privilege? Do they think the boys are more innocent than evil men?

I am a woman who was sexually assaulted by another woman. I've thought about this a lot. I think in the end it comes down to power, and I think control. The woman who assaulted me wanted someone she could manipulate, and who no one would believe if I came forward. I'm not the only person she did this to. There were others, both men and women, always younger (sometimes much younger). Many were people who had worked under or had a mentor-mentee type relationship with her.

I think exploiting us made her feel more powerful in her own life. She had major childhood trauma and serious mental health issues.

I also think this is probably why most men sexually assault women. I know people think it's desire, and I'm sure that's often part of it. But it's more than that, because why would men want a woman who doesn't want them? Even if very attracted to her.

It's about control.

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Anonymous wrote:This would have been a dream come true when I was in middle school. She is pretty attractive from the one picture I see. Not sure why the victim comes forward now.

You are sick and your attempt at normalizing an adult woman sleeping with a middle schooler is no doubt your twisted way of coping with your own childhood traumas. Seek therapy. This is not normal.

I don't know about the adult. But I know if you ask 100 middle school 8th grade boys at least 90 would fool around with hot teacher if you know you wont be caught. It's a classic male fantasy.

Anonymous wrote:Amazing this post has a mere 1 page of replies. If it was a 22 year old male teacher and a 10 to 13 year old girl we'd ve on page 30 by now.

It's DCUM, what did you expect?

Anonymous wrote:These are predators, and they come in all walks of life. They usually go after people who are defenseless and have issues at home. No different to how gangs target certain kids for recruiting.

Predators flock to jobs that give them unlimited opportunities to groom and sexually abuse victims. MCPS has an employee code of conduct that administrators do not enforce so predators are safe to email, text, and be alone with their victims. MCPS only reacts after the police makes the arrest. Meanwhile children are left with the scars of their trauma.

#jerryweast
#vance
#joshstarr
#jacksmith
#monifamcknight

All dogs of a different canine. When will the madness end? Bieldlemann has the county by the proverbial balls and no one is willing to call a "spade a spade". Shame on you MoCo

Anonymous wrote:My questions is who was her AP when this was happening at Lakelands Park? What years was Beidleman there? Who was he having an affair with then?

2009–2012, so earlier than this teacher would have been there

My questions is who was her AP when this was happening at Lakelands Park? What years was Beidleman there? Who was he having an affair with then?

Anonymous wrote:This would have been a dream come true when I was in middle school. She is pretty attractive from the one picture I see. Not sure why the victim comes forward now.

You are sick and your attempt at normalizing an adult woman sleeping with a middle schooler is no doubt your twisted way of coping with your own childhood traumas. Seek therapy. This is not normal.

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Anonymous wrote:It’s (also) terrible when men do this but I understand why they do it, because they can’t get adult women. But why do women do this? Why throw your life away to get with a child, when you can have your pick of adult men who would spoil you for the privilege? Do they think the boys are more innocent than evil men?

That is not why they do it.

It’s disturbing that you think that’s the reason and you “understand”.

Incel…

Anonymous wrote:This would have been a dream come true when I was in middle school. She is pretty attractive from the one picture I see. Not sure why the victim comes forward now.

Sexual assault sometimes takes time to process and go to the authorities. Look at how many are going after various churches decades later.

This would have been a dream come true when I was in middle school. She is pretty attractive from the one picture I see. Not sure why the victim comes forward now.