Anonymous wrote:OK. Let me explain how it works (or should work) at the high school level. High school, not college. College recruiting rules are much different and follow a set of NCAA rules. So don’t let what you know or think you know about D1, D2 or D3 college recruiting influence how you think about high school recruiting.
FIRST CONTACT- Coaches in the WCAC and IAC and maybe other conferences are prohibited from making FIRST CONTACT. If someone tells you they were contacted first by a coach, I’d take that with a grain of salt. These schools watch one another like hawks.
Potential athletes can be bought to the attention of high school coaches by youth team coaches (with whom they have relationships), by alumni, who sometimes scout youth teams and by parents of team mates, who are connected to or are interested in a school.
But the high school coach can’t contact the “prospect” until the kid or his/her parents contacts the school first. That could be at an open house or a call to the Admissions office or a call or visit to the coach or athletic director.
Sometimes what happens is that the alumnus or youth coach tells the high school coach about a kid, the coach agrees that he/she might be interested and the alumnus or youth coach communicates the interest to the athlete’s parent. The coach informs the alumnus that the school can’t make any overt moves until the parent or athlete contact them first.
After that first contact is made, there are no rules on the frequency or form of recruiting contact (as there are in college recruiting.)
The coach can express all the interest and enthusiasm he or she can muster. But they absolutely lack the power to offer admittance or financial aid or anything.
The coach needs to go to the Athletic Director (unless they are also the AD) and plead their case for admitting a targeted athlete.
During the Admission cycle, the Athletic Director goes to the Admissions Office with a prioritized list of the athletes they would like to see admitted. All the Athletic Director can do is recommend or plead the case for an applicant.
This is where the sport makes a difference. At many private schools, not all sports are equal in the eyes of the Athletic Director. An outstanding football or lacrosse player might be higher on the Athletic Director’s priority list than a sport that does not have a large following among the alumni.
When the Admissions process begins, neither the coach or the Athletic Director is involved (unless they are also members of Admissions team at the school.) They have done their part. The applicant’s application includes the notation that this is kid is a priority for the Athletic Department.
But that notation may not be enough to sway the Admissions decision in their favor. The Admissions people also look at academic capability and other factors. The Athletic Department does not get everyone in that they would like.
Then there is also the matter of Financial Aid (another area the coach or Athletic Director has no real power over.)
Schools will tell you that the FA process is separate from the Admissions process. But no one really believes that fiction because the Financial Aid budget is a fixed amount that is decided before the Admissions and Financial processes begin.
So some things to be aware of.
1. You have to make First Contact
2. All the coach wants early on is for you to submit an application.
3. The Athletic Director will submit his prioritized list to Admissions after talking to the various coaches.
4. It’s the Admissions Department or team that makes the decision on who to admit.
The coaches may tell you what they think you want to hear in order to submit an application and then to accept an offer of admission if one is offered.
OP here,
The first contact makes sense. I think my ex might be making the first contact in some cases. In other cases I can think of things that might have triggered it.
My kid gets a lot of aid where he is now, so there is no way we could do a move unless the new school matched it. Is my understanding correct that we would go through the process for multiple schools and find out at the end whether he gets and gets enough money, so it’s not like college where you can only apply to one?