Anonymous
Post 11/02/2023 03:28     Subject: Re:If 45+ and you had a chance to talk to your 38-year-old self, what would you say?

Get the divorce that you’ve been too afraid to go through with.

Have more sex.

Anonymous
Post 11/01/2023 23:36     Subject: Re:If 45+ and you had a chance to talk to your 38-year-old self, what would you say?

Buy as much stock as you can in hand sanitizer companies.
Anonymous
Post 11/01/2023 23:31     Subject: If 45+ and you had a chance to talk to your 38-year-old self, what would you say?

You are doing the right thing trusting your instincts to get your 9mos old evaluated, even if your DH/his dad disagrees. There is no substitute for early intervention. And, in general, always trust your mom instincts. You are a great mom!
Anonymous
Post 11/01/2023 23:26     Subject: Re:If 45+ and you had a chance to talk to your 38-year-old self, what would you say?

Eat healthy
Anonymous
Post 11/01/2023 23:17     Subject: If 45+ and you had a chance to talk to your 38-year-old self, what would you say?

Get that breast lump checked earlier. And maybe start Retin A sooner rather than later. And hug those babies.
Anonymous
Post 11/01/2023 23:07     Subject: If 45+ and you had a chance to talk to your 38-year-old self, what would you say?

Enjoy the baby years, they grow up fast.
Anonymous
Post 11/01/2023 23:05     Subject: If 45+ and you had a chance to talk to your 38-year-old self, what would you say?

I love you! You are perfect, and you will just get better.
Anonymous
Post 11/01/2023 23:04     Subject: If 45+ and you had a chance to talk to your 38-year-old self, what would you say?

I’m 39 and hearing out the stuff on this thread.

Thanks for starting op. And happy birthday.
Anonymous
Post 11/01/2023 22:56     Subject: If 45+ and you had a chance to talk to your 38-year-old self, what would you say?

Have a ton of sex, might not get a chance later.
Anonymous
Post 10/31/2023 21:19     Subject: If 45+ and you had a chance to talk to your 38-year-old self, what would you say?

They’re not your friends. They’re not even good people. I know you thought they were both. You will survive being the ousted one. You will get to the point where you can laugh or don’t care. It was true: the best revenge was living well and not carrying. Your career is about to take off in the most unexpected way to boot.
Hang in there, 38 yr old me!
Sincerely,
45 yr old me.
Anonymous
Post 10/31/2023 21:15     Subject: If 45+ and you had a chance to talk to your 38-year-old self, what would you say?

Just divorce him next time he’s a jerk. Don’t keep fighting for a bad marriage. You’ll be fine and happy again without him, and it’ll save you a year is so if extra misery.
Anonymous
Post 10/31/2023 21:14     Subject: If 45+ and you had a chance to talk to your 38-year-old self, what would you say?

Have the third baby. Focus more on fitness.
Anonymous
Post 10/31/2023 21:11     Subject: If 45+ and you had a chance to talk to your 38-year-old self, what would you say?

Take better care of your teeth! Floss!
Anonymous
Post 10/31/2023 21:05     Subject: If 45+ and you had a chance to talk to your 38-year-old self, what would you say?

Start the Rogaine at 45.
Anonymous
Post 10/31/2023 21:04     Subject: If 45+ and you had a chance to talk to your 38-year-old self, what would you say?

Stop eating pizza and ice cream. It will finally catch up to you.