Anonymous wrote:Doing it in public is performative public display, not flirting.

Meh depends on how it is done.

Doing it in public is performative public display, not flirting.

Do flirt, not always for sex but for keeping the spark.

Avoid making others uncomfortable, keep it private, secret flirting is more playful anyways.

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Anonymous wrote:I’m not sure I know how to flirt. We do touches as we walk by. I tell him how much I like to look at him. I kiss his mouth in the middle of a conversation. I dunno. Is that flirting?

Me too. What exactly is flirting?

Lame husband here whose wife begs me to flirt with her.

I was never much of a flirt in the first place, I thought getting married would mean I wouldn't have to put on the smooth operator act that being single seemed to require. I'm reasonably good looking and reasonably intelligent, just never was confident enough to be flirty, and it seemed phony and not part of my personality.

But she wants it from me. so I want to give it to her (the fact that she's gained 60+ pounds doesn't make it easier.)

Help me out, give me some tips!

Yes, but we’ve only been together three years (married for two). We kiss in public, smack each others butts, and generally act flirty. We both have pretty flirtatious personalities though.

When he is sweet to me I definitely flirt back. It’s nice to know that the spark is still there after many years.

Anonymous wrote:No, because he takes it as an invitation for sex. I have time to flirt while I am doing something else at the time; I do not necessarily have time to stop everything for sex.

So I stopped flirting.

I love a good a quickie and so does DH .

Anonymous wrote:Yes but also middle aged parent flirting that makes our children convulse in awkwardness haha.

Oh and we're 10 years, I'm this pp haha.

Yes but also middle aged parent flirting that makes our children convulse in awkwardness haha.

Anonymous wrote:Yes but it’s very middle aged parents flirting and presumably excruciating for anyone who might witness it.

This x1000 😂

My husband and I have been married for 23 years

No, because he takes it as an invitation for sex. I have time to flirt while I am doing something else at the time; I do not necessarily have time to stop everything for sex.

So I stopped flirting.

Yes, and we've been married 31 years. We flirt more than ever since we both permanently started working from home in 2020. The idea that he's around during the day, which is when I'm usually much more up for sex, makes me want to flirt in hopes of achieving that goal!

All the time. I love sending him flirty text throughout the day. He is a very passionate lover and I definitely enjoy the benefits.

Anonymous wrote:Not really because she doesn't flirt back. It's like playing racquetball against drapes.

lol!

I’m sorry.

I am like this when I am sick and I feel so bad for my DH.

Yes. Married 19 years.