Anonymous wrote:When I read about her, I thought 'big deal, everyone has to do that'. But then i gave it more thought and realized she's right. It does suck. We all just accepted that working meant commute, long hours, essentially 'donating' work to the company when we worked extra and didn't get paid extra, getting home at 6 or 7 and then jamming the rest of our lives into 4 to 6 hours at the end of the day. That allows mostly for maintenance (washing clothes, cooking, shopping, paying bills, bathing, hair cuts, doctor/dentist appointments, car maintenance, cleaning house, etc.). Oh, you want kids? Well, double up on the chores plus attending to your child.
Why did I -- or anyone -- think that was an OK way to live?
And I agree with her and thought, "this is how change happens." We shouldn't live this way.
+1
I absolutely love that this generation is pushing back on the narrative that this is a normal way to live. And the housing (even rental) market does stink right now so that people can’t live close to their jobs. There have been so many technological advances over the past couple decades and somehow this has = greater profits for companies while just expecting more and more out of employees without their compensation going up equally as well.
There is so much more to life than work and it makes sense that as we evolve our mindset around this changes. After all, we don’t go out and milk our own cows or hand wash our laundry anymore.
Our civilization has advanced and we should want generations after us to have it easier than we did. I don’t understand the whole mindset of “I had to walk uphill both ways so you should too.” Not to mention the grads starting out now had to pay more for an education, pay more for housing, and for basically everything else. Dual income households are now needed for a lifestyle that my family had with a SAHM. Neither of my parents had a graduate degree, which my DH and I needed in today’s world to get an UMC career.
Good for Gen Z for calling out the BS of how everything is structured to most benefit employers at every turn.