Anonymous
Post 10/14/2023 23:25     Subject: True or False: Once a cheater always a cheater

Anonymous wrote:As a cheater, I say false.


+1.
Anonymous
Post 10/14/2023 23:21     Subject: True or False: Once a cheater always a cheater

I’d say false.I’m a DH, would never think of cheating with my great wife. 26 years plus.
Anonymous
Post 10/14/2023 22:58     Subject: True or False: Once a cheater always a cheater

I really hope this is False
Anonymous
Post 10/14/2023 22:00     Subject: Re:True or False: Once a cheater always a cheater

No experience so far so I can’t vote. But I have a POV!
Anonymous
Post 10/14/2023 21:57     Subject: Re:True or False: Once a cheater always a cheater

Anonymous wrote:Sons of cheaters have no problem with cheating.
I've encountered that twice directly.


Nor do daughters of Ho cheating mothers.
Anonymous
Post 10/14/2023 21:44     Subject: Re:True or False: Once a cheater always a cheater

Sons of cheaters have no problem with cheating.
I've encountered that twice directly.
Anonymous
Post 10/14/2023 21:40     Subject: True or False: Once a cheater always a cheater

Somewhat. I think if a person cheats on you once, they’ll eventually cheat again. But people can and do change - so a person who cheated in a relationship in their early-mid 20s might not cheat on a new, more serious partner in their 30s.
Anonymous
Post 10/14/2023 21:26     Subject: True or False: Once a cheater always a cheater

True. I now have the divorce papers to show for it.
Anonymous
Post 10/14/2023 19:39     Subject: Re:True or False: Once a cheater always a cheater

You can be a recovered cheater, just like you can be recovered from other stuff too.

Anonymous
Post 10/14/2023 18:16     Subject: True or False: Once a cheater always a cheater

Not true. I was always a cheater. Well, often a cheater anyway. Then I met the man who is my DH and I haven't cheated in 20 years.
Anonymous
Post 10/14/2023 18:10     Subject: True or False: Once a cheater always a cheater

False. I cheated on my then girlfriend when we were in grad school, more than 20 years ago. We ended up marrying a few years later, and I have been completely faithful to her since.

I was pretty young at the time, early 20s, and I think I was just really immature. I grew up and wanted to do better and be a good man. I try every day to be a good husband and dad. I’m not perfect, but I would never cheat again. I learned my lesson and I hate that I hurt this woman I love.
Anonymous
Post 10/14/2023 18:04     Subject: True or False: Once a cheater always a cheater

Anonymous wrote:Once you've show that you are capable of disregarding vows and another person's feelings, you have shown your true colors. Whether future sins involve your genitals, or not.


+1
Anonymous
Post 10/14/2023 17:59     Subject: True or False: Once a cheater always a cheater

False. I cheated at 19 because I felt trapped in a relationship hurtling toward marriage with a man everyone loved but me. I was immature and didn't understand I had agency and choices.
Anonymous
Post 10/14/2023 17:54     Subject: True or False: Once a cheater always a cheater

True
Anonymous
Post 10/14/2023 17:36     Subject: True or False: Once a cheater always a cheater

False but you can’t know which cheater is which. I’d never get into a LTR with somebody who had cheated.