Anonymous wrote:He texted again saying weren't we friends years ago. He was just thinking about me last night and wanted to reach out. Kept it short. Actually seems way more innocent than what I originally thought

You can’t stop yourself from replying, can you?

He texted again saying weren't we friends years ago. He was just thinking about me last night and wanted to reach out. Kept it short. Actually seems way more innocent than what I originally thought

How do you know this guys didn’t just get divorced is lonely and texted/call 10 women he knows?

Respond like he’s a stranger, or better yet don’t respond.

You can respond if he has courage to say his name on a voicemail or text.

Anonymous wrote:Don’t reply. You’re married. Don’t borrow trouble!

Love that saying

People remember people they were friends with 18 years ago.

Don’t reply. You’re married. Don’t borrow trouble!

Booty call. Delete, block and forget.

Op, drop the speculation. You're married.
This other man wondered what your status is - if you were available. You are not. Done.

He’s probably just looking for a hookup and remembers you. Maybe he’s playing dumb and hoping you’ll take the bait (you are, and are also playing dumb, but he’s definitely on your mind now.)

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Anonymous wrote:He was drunk dialing. There are numerous songs about it. I’d block, but it seems like you are giddy from the attention.

Not giddy as much as curious. Again I don't actually think he remembers who I am. Doubt a drunk dial

You've already spent too much time on this. Move on. You're not single

Anonymous wrote:He was drunk dialing. There are numerous songs about it. I’d block, but it seems like you are giddy from the attention.

Not giddy as much as curious. Again I don't actually think he remembers who I am. Doubt a drunk dial

He was drunk dialing. There are numerous songs about it. I’d block, but it seems like you are giddy from the attention.

So I actually do think I want to respond but I'm having trouble figuring out a response.

Obviously I tell him my name. But I feel like he will be all I don't know you and while I don't care at the end of the day haha I also want to convey I only know his # bc I googled it and his name came up. I don't have his #/name saved. But I can't say that without looking like a big ole weirdo

Anonymous wrote:I just have a hard time believing he actually still knows who I am. If I responded to his do I have the right # text with my name I feel like he would say who?

I don't even think we'd recognize each other passing on the street. He just has a memorable name- from his band. I do not.

If he was Dave Grohl or Anthony Kiedis from a very successful band I am sure you would go out of your way to reconnect with him whether you are married or not.

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Anonymous wrote:Was he in your college group? The call itself came in at around 11?

and this makes you around 35 now?

37

Ok, line of questions was to rule out him having information about a mutual friend. My guess is a current jealous partner is looking through his phone. If it were him trying to stir something up, he would have texted first I think. I would ignore.

Ohhh interesting. That makes sense. Absolutely no information not mutuals and not connected on any sm