Anonymous
Post 10/11/2023 18:23     Subject: Life insurance for adult child -- is this common?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Agree, they probably aren't very financially savvy.

But they may have thought: to get him insured at a young age, this guards against pre-existing conditions that might keep him (or anyone) from qualifying for life insurance in the future. A beneficiary can easily be changed - I'm sure they knew that. They probably knew no one else, logically, to make as a beneficiary when the policy was written. They probably wouldn't have minded in the least for the beneficiary to be you now that you are married.



No, it was term and it already expired, OP said.


+1 Parents who do that typically purchase whole life insurance

Signed,

Adult whose parents did that. Dropped that policy when I was 25 and out on my own.
Anonymous
Post 10/11/2023 17:30     Subject: Life insurance for adult child -- is this common?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:My spouse's parents had him get a life insurance policy when he was 22, with them as the beneficiaries. He paid the premiums. When we got married we were sorting finances and I asked about that expense (it was about $20/mo) and he explained what it was. He was 35 when we got married and I asked if it was necessary to keep it. I didn't understand what it was for -- he doesn't support his parents financially, and then have government pensions and a paid off house and are perfectly comfortable in retirement. He pushed back and said he didn't feel comfortable giving it up, so I left it alone.

Then it came to the end of term (it was a 20 year policy) and he was prompted to renew, and he decided not to renew on his own, I didn't weigh in.

But I've always found this odd. Is this something others have done? Why would someone in their 20s need life insurance at all, unless they had dependents or a spouse with whom they shared finances? I've just never understood why DH's parents encouraged him to do this or what it was for. The policy was much larger than would be necessary just to cover stuff like funeral costs (and they are well enough off that something like that wouldn't have been overly burdensome either).

I'm not judging, I just don't understand and my DH doesn't know either, he just knows his dad kind of hounded him to do it when he graduated college and their relationship was such that he felt he had to. It wound up being thousands of dollars in premiums over 20 years.



These policies are sold to unwitting adults who buy the line that the policy (usually capped at $30K) will cover the child's funeral expenses should that happen. My aunt bought one on my cousin decades ago. It's still floating out there but only worth the $30K. Most financial advisers will suggest that should such a sad thing happen that it be covered by regular savings. A policy isn't needed.


OP here and this is what I was wondering. But I find it weird his parents made him pay for it himself! And it was a term policy so now that the term is over, it's gone. Just a waste of money. If he'd stuck the $240/yr in a savings or investment vehicle over 20 years, it wouldn't be a ton of money but it would be a lot more than nothing.

In the end not a big deal but it's been bugging me as I just could not figure out why anyone would do this.


NP
Let it go or ask your father-in-law if you have good relationship.
Now let him have one and you become the beneficiary.
Anonymous
Post 10/06/2023 20:18     Subject: Life insurance for adult child -- is this common?

I bet they fully imagined he would make his wife and kids the beneficiaries once he married and he just didn’t realize that.
Anonymous
Post 10/05/2023 16:35     Subject: Life insurance for adult child -- is this common?

Anonymous wrote:It was term, but it was marketed (right or wrong) as a reliable way to secure access to life insurance.


Sounds like it was for the duration of its term. And if it has a good renewal policy, that could be beneficial. Imagine if he had a health condition come up and couldn't get other insurance, then renewing this policy might have been his best option.

Not everyone feels the need for whole-life insurance. At a certain point when your minor children are launched and you have retirement savings to cover everything that would need to be covered if you died, it's not really worth paying for life insurance at all.