Anonymous
10/04/2023 12:49
Subject: Re:How physically attracted are you to your spouse?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I feel kind of defective when this question is asked. I love my husband, and I like having sex with him. I don’t feel, like, sexually aroused just by looking at him. And he could look a lot different (gain/lose weight, lose his hair, have some kind of maiming physical injury), and I would still like having sex with him about the same amount.
No, you are normal. Men are inherently gross unless they are built like Adonis. Women are visually arousing. And I'm a hetero cis woman.
I'd like to kindly suggest that you may want to reconsider how hetero you really are.
Anonymous
10/04/2023 12:39
Subject: Re:How physically attracted are you to your spouse?
Anonymous wrote:I feel kind of defective when this question is asked. I love my husband, and I like having sex with him. I don’t feel, like, sexually aroused just by looking at him. And he could look a lot different (gain/lose weight, lose his hair, have some kind of maiming physical injury), and I would still like having sex with him about the same amount.
No, you are normal. Men are inherently gross unless they are built like Adonis. Women are visually arousing. And I'm a hetero cis woman.
Anonymous
10/04/2023 12:27
Subject: How physically attracted are you to your spouse?
Yes. DH is hot AF. He likely wouldn’t say the same for me, with my 40lb weight gain. He doesn’t show it. He continues to love me and our bedroom is alive and well.
Anonymous
10/04/2023 12:16
Subject: Re:How physically attracted are you to your spouse?
There is a lot of reporting bias on this thread.
Anonymous
10/04/2023 12:14
Subject: How physically attracted are you to your spouse?
0% - he's gotten that awful cellphone hunched over hump in his back / posture. which i feel is so representative of how he is (hunched over his phone all the time closed off and unaware of real life and real people happening around him)
Anonymous
10/04/2023 12:04
Subject: How physically attracted are you to your spouse?
Anonymous wrote:Married for 23 years. Find DH more attractive then when I met her. Really. Truly.
What I find surprising is, when I look at her pictures when she is younger, I find that she was incredibly more attractive than what I felt at that time.
Should be DW. Maybe I am referring to me....
Anonymous
10/04/2023 12:04
Subject: How physically attracted are you to your spouse?
Married for 23 years. Find DH more attractive then when I met her. Really. Truly.
What I find surprising is, when I look at her pictures when she is younger, I find that she was incredibly more attractive than what I felt at that time.
What I find surprising is, when I look at her pictures when she is younger, I find that she was incredibly more attractive than what I felt at that time.
Anonymous
10/03/2023 17:02
Subject: How physically attracted are you to your spouse?
Together 20 years, late 40s and 50s. We have both maintained our weight and he still has a 6 pack.
Anonymous
10/03/2023 17:00
Subject: Re:How physically attracted are you to your spouse?
No. Hasn't been since we were married 10 years. Gained weight and became lazy.
Anonymous
10/03/2023 16:59
Subject: Re:How physically attracted are you to your spouse?
I feel kind of defective when this question is asked. I love my husband, and I like having sex with him. I don’t feel, like, sexually aroused just by looking at him. And he could look a lot different (gain/lose weight, lose his hair, have some kind of maiming physical injury), and I would still like having sex with him about the same amount.
Anonymous
10/03/2023 16:55
Subject: How physically attracted are you to your spouse?
I met him when I was 16 years old and it was like lightning. He’s still the only man I want even though our marriage has had some major lows and there was a time when I wanted to leave because of certain behaviors. But physically I always want him close, I want sex with him pretty much every day.
Anonymous
10/03/2023 16:12
Subject: How physically attracted are you to your spouse?
Most definitely. I think he's more handsome now than the day we married.....he just gets better looking actually! Married 22 years (known him since 6th grade though 
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Anonymous
10/03/2023 16:09
Subject: Re:How physically attracted are you to your spouse?
No. Together for almost 30 years. I can recognize he is not an unattractive man for his age objectively. But I don’t think either one of us is really attracted to each other anymore. Honestly, our relationship was never really that HOT passion. We were more like really good friends who had sex. Now we’re just like really good friends.
Anonymous
10/03/2023 15:15
Subject: How physically attracted are you to your spouse?
We've aged mediocrely and have been together for long and weren't Gigi Hadid and Zayn Malick to begin with but we've always found each other attractive, through every phase of life.
Anonymous
10/03/2023 15:08
Subject: How physically attracted are you to your spouse?
Very, our bedroom is the opposite of dead. 17 years together, ages 45 and 50.