Anonymous
Post 09/12/2023 17:11     Subject: S/o: What can American men learn from foreign men?
Romance
Anonymous
Post 09/12/2023 17:05     Subject: S/o: What can American men learn from foreign men?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Nothing IMO. American men are almost always more attractive than other men. If not physically, than personality wise. And the most attractive American is positively smoking the most attractive anywhere-else guy.


I disagree with the attractiveness( I think foreign men tend to be more attractive), but I 100% agree with personality.

In my limited experience American men are more likely to be an equal partner at home.

As much as I bond easily with foreign women due to our similar sense of humor, I appreciate American women for setting their men straight. They have made life much easier for some of us who married American men.

The world is quite a big place. Conservative countries tend to have men who don't help at home. Non conservative countries like Scandinavian countries have a lot of men who do take care of the kids and home. They get like one year paternity leave, and their men take it to take care of the kids.

Those same guys in Scandinavian countries also pathologically expect women to initiate, pursue, and go dutch. Ewwwww.
Anonymous
Post 09/12/2023 17:00     Subject: S/o: What can American men learn from foreign men?
I don’t think you can confer dance or musical ability to a whole country. There are people who like to dance in every culture and country in the world.
Anonymous
Post 09/12/2023 16:56     Subject: S/o: What can American men learn from foreign men?
Anonymous wrote:Surprised to see multiple women here saying they prefer uncircumsized! To ear their own I guess.

+1!
Anonymous
Post 09/12/2023 16:51     Subject: S/o: What can American men learn from foreign men?
Be a man and be a good provider.

Take responsibility for your kids. You are not winning if your ex wife’s spouse is proving for your kids and taking them to Disneyworld. Your kids think you are lame.

Your wife is the ruler of the domestic world. You need to take care of the external stuff.

Appreciate that if your kids are failures, you are a failure.
Anonymous
Post 09/12/2023 16:49     Subject: S/o: What can American men learn from foreign men?
Surprised to see multiple women here saying they prefer uncircumsized! To ear their own I guess.
Anonymous
Post 09/12/2023 16:49     Subject: S/o: What can American men learn from foreign men?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Southern European men are much better fathers and family men. Due to having big extended families.


I actually think men from big extended families are less helpful at home. In big extended families, older women tend to do most of the work and baby the men.


Yeah pp is an idiot

What you say is true

Also southern European men as a whole earn very poorly so don’t really do a great job when it comes to economically being able to support a family

Hence family formation and family size has plummeted in southern europe

+1 southern European men tend to be more mama's boys.
Anonymous
Post 09/12/2023 16:48     Subject: S/o: What can American men learn from foreign men?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Dancing!


Exactly !

eh.. my DH refuses to dance except when he's drunk. He's from Europe. The American men I dated were great dancers, just not great husband material for me.


Can you specify which European country

That goes for others in this thread who use examples

Europe is a huge place

pp here.. He's British. I know several British men. They don't dance at all well. Have you seen Hugh Grant dance in Love Actually? Like that. It's cute and funny, but I would not call that "a good dancer".
Anonymous
Post 09/12/2023 16:47     Subject: S/o: What can American men learn from foreign men?
Anonymous wrote:Stop circ-ing

This, and learn to dance. They don't know that it doesn't work quite as well when it has been chopped off.
Anonymous
Post 09/12/2023 16:46     Subject: Re:S/o: What can American men learn from foreign men?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:My DH is a Brit and said that he didn't understand the American dating scene of dating around multiple people at the same time, always waiting for the next better offer.


That’s par for course in England also

Unless he was super posh etonian/west end type or rural

English dating in cities for millenials and gen z has converged quite a bit with Americans


yea, I can see it's generational, too. Unfortunately, the US culture has invaded the UK.
Anonymous
Post 09/12/2023 16:45     Subject: S/o: What can American men learn from foreign men?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Nothing IMO. American men are almost always more attractive than other men. If not physically, than personality wise. And the most attractive American is positively smoking the most attractive anywhere-else guy.


I disagree with the attractiveness( I think foreign men tend to be more attractive), but I 100% agree with personality.

In my limited experience American men are more likely to be an equal partner at home.

As much as I bond easily with foreign women due to our similar sense of humor, I appreciate American women for setting their men straight. They have made life much easier for some of us who married American men.

The world is quite a big place. Conservative countries tend to have men who don't help at home. Non conservative countries like Scandinavian countries have a lot of men who do take care of the kids and home. They get like one year paternity leave, and their men take it to take care of the kids.
Anonymous
Post 09/12/2023 16:16     Subject: S/o: What can American men learn from foreign men?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Southern European men are much better fathers and family men. Due to having big extended families.


I actually think men from big extended families are less helpful at home. In big extended families, older women tend to do most of the work and baby the men.


Yeah pp is an idiot

What you say is true

Also southern European men as a whole earn very poorly so don’t really do a great job when it comes to economically being able to support a family

Hence family formation and family size has plummeted in southern europe
Anonymous
Post 09/12/2023 16:13     Subject: S/o: What can American men learn from foreign men?
Anonymous wrote:Southern European men are much better fathers and family men. Due to having big extended families.


I actually think men from big extended families are less helpful at home. In big extended families, older women tend to do most of the work and baby the men.
Anonymous
Post 09/12/2023 16:12     Subject: S/o: What can American men learn from foreign men?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Dancing!


Exactly !

eh.. my DH refuses to dance except when he's drunk. He's from Europe. The American men I dated were great dancers, just not great husband material for me.


Can you specify which European country

That goes for others in this thread who use examples

Europe is a huge place
Anonymous
Post 09/12/2023 16:11     Subject: S/o: What can American men learn from foreign men?
Southern European men are much better fathers and family men. Due to having big extended families.