Anonymous
Post 09/09/2023 19:45     Subject: Most important quality you want in a future husband
I’m remarried (very happily), and I sought out patience, sense of humor, and ability to laugh at himself as qualities. These are also good qualities for a father (parent).
Anonymous
Post 09/09/2023 19:43     Subject: Most important quality you want in a future husband

I don't know any more.

I have an autistic husband who is extremely intellectual and interesting to converse with, and has a very useful troubleshooting sort of mindset about everything. But he's such a poor communicator. Cannot for the life of him read other's moods well, or adapt or be flexible to rapidly evolving situations. He lacks all self-awareness, and doesn't know what to do with his own or other people's emotions. When he's stressed, forget it, he can fly into rages at the drop of a hat.

It's draining.

This is why monogamy isn't what humans should be doing. We should exist in groups so that we get what we want out of 2-3 different partners, with or without benefits. Currently I get my emotional needs met by a few kind friends.


Anonymous
Post 09/09/2023 19:31     Subject: Most important quality you want in a future husband
Faithful to me
Anonymous
Post 09/09/2023 14:15     Subject: Re:Most important quality you want in a future husband
High emotional IQ/ emotional maturity
Anonymous
Post 09/09/2023 09:18     Subject: Most important quality you want in a future husband
Anonymous wrote:Honest and kind.

This is more important than anything else. I can make my own money.


+1
Anonymous
Post 09/09/2023 09:14     Subject: Most important quality you want in a future husband
Not selfish
Anonymous
Post 09/09/2023 08:29     Subject: Most important quality you want in a future husband
Loyalty
Anonymous
Post 09/09/2023 08:28     Subject: Most important quality you want in a future husband
Anonymous wrote:Personally mine would be an upright person.


So you want your future husband to stand erect?
Anonymous
Post 09/09/2023 08:25     Subject: Most important quality you want in a future husband
Honest and kind.

This is more important than anything else. I can make my own money.
Anonymous
Post 09/09/2023 08:12     Subject: Most important quality you want in a future husband
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Personally mine would be an upright person.


Your next husband won’t take this news lying down


Upright person by default doesn't have major traits which lead to discord or divorce.