Anonymous wrote:Don't forget theme weddings and all the other ways to treat your guests as props. Everyone wear Medieval Punk! No pink allowed, it clashes with the wedding colors!
Anonymous wrote:Explanations optional.
No-kids weddings N/A
No +1 weddings N/A
Destination weddings N/A
Dry weddings bad, but N/A if it’s clear from the invitation
No open bar weddings worse
Weddings of couples who ask for cashdon’t care
Anonymous wrote:Explanations optional.
Worst to best:
Destination weddings. Really selfish and a big ask for people with limited budgets and time
No open bar weddings. Don't charge your guests for hospitality.
No +1weddings. I personally don't mind attending a wedding alone since I usually know others there, but admit I might be the outlier.
Asking for cash weddings. Eh. Sort of tacky but not much worse than an insane gift registry.
Dry weddings. I grew up in an alcohol-free culture so most weddings I attended until adulthood were dry (maybe a single glass of wine or champagne.) It was actually quite nice to not have sloppy drunks at the end of the evening. If the weddings had great food and good music, they were fun.
No-kids weddings. No objections to this as long as it's consistent. Please help out-of-town guests find a reliable sitter, though.
Anonymous wrote:My ranking, from most offensive to least offensive:
Dry weddings - Don't make your issues with alcohol, everyone else's issue.
No open bar weddings - Don't be cheap. At least offer 2 drinks, then make it a cash bar
Weddings of couples who ask for cash - dunno why but this just feels tacky. It's really no different than making a gift registry, but for some reason making it "cash" feels....eh
No +1 weddings - weddings are expensive. So unless this is someone you've been dating for a while please don't bring someone. but if this is someone serious a +1 would be nice.
No-kids weddings - No issue with this. Kids distract from the event, and they take their parents attention away from the festivities.
Destination weddings -who cares it's their wedding you're not required to attend.
Anonymous wrote:
Don't forget having your wedding at a "historic plantation".
Anonymous wrote:Explanations optional.
No-kids weddings
No +1 weddings
Destination weddings
Dry weddings
No open bar weddings
Weddings of couples who ask for cash
Anonymous wrote:Money dance! So horribly tacky. I can’t believe people do this.