Anonymous
Post 08/09/2023 16:14     Subject: Re:Anyone else eat out/carryout all the time?

While I think if it works for you then do it but I think you could try to re-work your weekend schedule to double your recipes so that the Sunday dinner stretches a day or two. Plus maybe make an extra meal.

On Sunday, bake a whole chicken or pieces. Then use that to create chicken tacos or fajitas later in the week. Make a casserole to use later in the week. Or sausage and peppers. Or use the crockpot to do a meal or two. Other idea is to do sandwiches for dinner with a salad or a can of soup.

Maybe take turns with your husband on meal planning. Does he like to grill, then have him grill on the weekend and use that meat during the week.

Or maybe find a personal chef to cook for you and drop the meals off.

I worry more about if your children te getting the correct balance of nutrients when you eat out all week.
Anonymous
Post 08/09/2023 09:50     Subject: Anyone else eat out/carryout all the time?

I love to cook and previously did 6/7 meals per week, with takeout Fridays. But now that I have two under 5, and am expecting a third, that takeout frequency is gradually ticking up. Now it's more like 2-3 times a week rather than 1. I WFH and sometimes do the slow cooker or instant pot for bulk meals in advance, but these days I'm just too tired to think about it. I'll probably get back into the cooking groove eventually, once I get out of the postpartum fog and figure out a routine for my older two kids. I don't stress about it... it's more money, sure, but it's my money or my time and energy and these days, the former wins out.
Anonymous
Post 08/08/2023 21:14     Subject: Anyone else eat out/carryout all the time?

OP, we’re like you. Family of four, two working parents, although my kids are much younger. We get dinner takeout once or twice a week and eat a lot of lunches out during the work week. But we eat primarily Sweetgreen for lunch and stick to other healthy options for dinner. As a person who grew up never eating out (because we couldn’t afford it), I feel sheepish about this, but a) we can afford it b) it makes my life easier and better c) we cook healthy, fresh, delicious dinners most nights. Do what works for you.
Anonymous
Post 08/08/2023 20:35     Subject: Anyone else eat out/carryout all the time?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:The added sugars and sodium in take out foods - yes even from so-called healthy places - is doing a number on your health and kids’ health. There are a lot of healthy weight healthy appearing people in USA who have metabolic disorder and who are developing NAFLD beginning in teens and early adulthood.

Do a few hours of food prep with your kids every weekend. You’ll teach them valuable skills and you can prep ahead lunches and dinners too - so many healthy meals you can prep ahead and quickly cook or reheat when you get home from activities. Or foods that travel well and can be eaten on the fly. It’s just a matter of a little planning and a little investment of time but the payoff is huge.

If you don’t teach your kids healthy home cooking skills now, when will they learn them? Or will they join the many Americans who eat takeout nearly the majority of the time, and ultra processed foods most of the rest of the time?


I am not a health nut but, this. I used to work in a restaurant that served extremely high quality, vegetable forward, restaurant food. It still has way more butter, sugar, and salt than anything I'd make at home. That's why it tastes so good! I mean, not the only reason, but it's one reason restaurant food is often so satisfying. Also, a lot of vegan and vegetarian places use a ton of chemicals in their food, it's a real catch-22. But it's how they get vegan food to taste as satisfying as non-vegan food. Restaurant food is something different than what you are supposed to eat every day. Even fast-casual places -- it's the same problem. Same with prepared foods at the grocery store.

You know what I'd do if I were you? Take one night in the next week and serve fried eggs on toast with an arugula salad and whatever dressing you like. See how it goes. That's my "easy dinner" when I just don't feel like cooking and you know what? I love it. It's fat, protein, carbs, greens. You can dress it up (avocado, hot sauce, cheese, roast some veggies to lay over the greens) or serve it as is. It's on the table in five minutes. You control how much salt goes in and what fat you use to fry the egg, and it's no added sugar.

Start there, see how it feels. And then you can build. If you can fry and egg and toast some bread, you can make dinner. Next week throw some pre-chopped veggies on a pan (Whole Foods will sell them ready for roasting) with olive oil, salt and pepper, and grill a couple chicken breasts on a grill pan. Here's a tip -- tenderize the chicken breasts first, before seasoning, as this will make them both cook faster and absorb the seasoning better.

Cooking does not need to be an ordeal. There are a lot of meals you can make at home with less energy than it takes to order take out. Seriously.


?? What chemicals are in the vegan food??


PP is being vague but:
1 Pesticides. Insecticides. Restaurants usually don't serve organic.
2. Lots of food additives that probably aren't great long-term but have not yet been found to be "bad" in the short-term: MSG, etc.
Anonymous
Post 08/08/2023 20:32     Subject: Anyone else eat out/carryout all the time?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:The added sugars and sodium in take out foods - yes even from so-called healthy places - is doing a number on your health and kids’ health. There are a lot of healthy weight healthy appearing people in USA who have metabolic disorder and who are developing NAFLD beginning in teens and early adulthood.

Do a few hours of food prep with your kids every weekend. You’ll teach them valuable skills and you can prep ahead lunches and dinners too - so many healthy meals you can prep ahead and quickly cook or reheat when you get home from activities. Or foods that travel well and can be eaten on the fly. It’s just a matter of a little planning and a little investment of time but the payoff is huge.

If you don’t teach your kids healthy home cooking skills now, when will they learn them? Or will they join the many Americans who eat takeout nearly the majority of the time, and ultra processed foods most of the rest of the time?


I am not a health nut but, this. I used to work in a restaurant that served extremely high quality, vegetable forward, restaurant food. It still has way more butter, sugar, and salt than anything I'd make at home. That's why it tastes so good! I mean, not the only reason, but it's one reason restaurant food is often so satisfying. Also, a lot of vegan and vegetarian places use a ton of chemicals in their food, it's a real catch-22. But it's how they get vegan food to taste as satisfying as non-vegan food. Restaurant food is something different than what you are supposed to eat every day. Even fast-casual places -- it's the same problem. Same with prepared foods at the grocery store.

You know what I'd do if I were you? Take one night in the next week and serve fried eggs on toast with an arugula salad and whatever dressing you like. See how it goes. That's my "easy dinner" when I just don't feel like cooking and you know what? I love it. It's fat, protein, carbs, greens. You can dress it up (avocado, hot sauce, cheese, roast some veggies to lay over the greens) or serve it as is. It's on the table in five minutes. You control how much salt goes in and what fat you use to fry the egg, and it's no added sugar.

Start there, see how it feels. And then you can build. If you can fry and egg and toast some bread, you can make dinner. Next week throw some pre-chopped veggies on a pan (Whole Foods will sell them ready for roasting) with olive oil, salt and pepper, and grill a couple chicken breasts on a grill pan. Here's a tip -- tenderize the chicken breasts first, before seasoning, as this will make them both cook faster and absorb the seasoning better.

Cooking does not need to be an ordeal. There are a lot of meals you can make at home with less energy than it takes to order take out. Seriously.


?? What chemicals are in the vegan food??
Anonymous
Post 08/08/2023 20:22     Subject: Anyone else eat out/carryout all the time?

As a small step, consider a meal delivery service. I like Hello Fresh, but there are so many and some are even pre-cooked.
Anonymous
Post 08/08/2023 19:17     Subject: Anyone else eat out/carryout all the time?

Anonymous wrote:Cooking isn't just about spending. It's also about being in touch with your humanity and not commoditizing and commercializing your life.

Cooking a casserole/stew dish on the weekend for leftovers at the week, and having whole food sides, is good for you. It's also not too hard to cook simple good meals. Microwaves and air fryers make short work of veggies and proteins, with minimal cleanup.
A little bit of startup planning effort pays dividends in the form of "go to" recipes.

Also question the abundance of activities. Why do your kids need so much distractions ? Sitting in a car isn't an important life skills to practice for hours ever day.



Broadening your horizons by exploring other cultures through food is also staying in touch with your humanity. And sorry but unless you are growing, raising, hunting everything you consume you commoditizing/commercializing your life.
Anonymous
Post 08/08/2023 19:00     Subject: Anyone else eat out/carryout all the time?

Crockpot
Anonymous
Post 08/08/2023 18:17     Subject: Re:Anyone else eat out/carryout all the time?

We rarely eat out for many reasons - budget, health conscious, and flavor. Frankly, I can prepare tastier food than your average restaurant, I save eating out for cuisines that I haven't mastered, like Thai and Ethiopian.

There are tons of recipes that come together in 30 minutes or less. Chopping veggies and measuring out ingredients takes the most time for many things, either chop your onions/peppers/etc. the night before, or purchase them pre-diced from the grocery. Without knowing your preferences I can't suggest any dishes. But it's not clear if you want to change your habits or just feel better about them if more people do the same.

Carryout also has environmental implications with all the packaging.
Anonymous
Post 08/08/2023 16:46     Subject: Anyone else eat out/carryout all the time?

I would try and cut back to only 2x a week eating out. As someone said, even healthyish is still not that healthy over the long term.

Is it the prep, reheating or are you simply not getting home from work but going straight to pick-up kids and then on to an activity immediately. If that, you likely have no choice.

I have ideas but you probably have tried many solutions and I am sure it just gets overwhelming.

We all have areas we would like to improve so give yourself some grace.
Anonymous
Post 08/08/2023 16:42     Subject: Anyone else eat out/carryout all the time?

Anonymous wrote:The added sugars and sodium in take out foods - yes even from so-called healthy places - is doing a number on your health and kids’ health. There are a lot of healthy weight healthy appearing people in USA who have metabolic disorder and who are developing NAFLD beginning in teens and early adulthood.

Do a few hours of food prep with your kids every weekend. You’ll teach them valuable skills and you can prep ahead lunches and dinners too - so many healthy meals you can prep ahead and quickly cook or reheat when you get home from activities. Or foods that travel well and can be eaten on the fly. It’s just a matter of a little planning and a little investment of time but the payoff is huge.

If you don’t teach your kids healthy home cooking skills now, when will they learn them? Or will they join the many Americans who eat takeout nearly the majority of the time, and ultra processed foods most of the rest of the time?


I am not a health nut but, this. I used to work in a restaurant that served extremely high quality, vegetable forward, restaurant food. It still has way more butter, sugar, and salt than anything I'd make at home. That's why it tastes so good! I mean, not the only reason, but it's one reason restaurant food is often so satisfying. Also, a lot of vegan and vegetarian places use a ton of chemicals in their food, it's a real catch-22. But it's how they get vegan food to taste as satisfying as non-vegan food. Restaurant food is something different than what you are supposed to eat every day. Even fast-casual places -- it's the same problem. Same with prepared foods at the grocery store.

You know what I'd do if I were you? Take one night in the next week and serve fried eggs on toast with an arugula salad and whatever dressing you like. See how it goes. That's my "easy dinner" when I just don't feel like cooking and you know what? I love it. It's fat, protein, carbs, greens. You can dress it up (avocado, hot sauce, cheese, roast some veggies to lay over the greens) or serve it as is. It's on the table in five minutes. You control how much salt goes in and what fat you use to fry the egg, and it's no added sugar.

Start there, see how it feels. And then you can build. If you can fry and egg and toast some bread, you can make dinner. Next week throw some pre-chopped veggies on a pan (Whole Foods will sell them ready for roasting) with olive oil, salt and pepper, and grill a couple chicken breasts on a grill pan. Here's a tip -- tenderize the chicken breasts first, before seasoning, as this will make them both cook faster and absorb the seasoning better.

Cooking does not need to be an ordeal. There are a lot of meals you can make at home with less energy than it takes to order take out. Seriously.
Anonymous
Post 08/08/2023 16:35     Subject: Anyone else eat out/carryout all the time?

I've recently gone on a diet and its amazing how even healthier restaurant items go south quickly as far as calories, fat and salt.
Anonymous
Post 08/08/2023 16:33     Subject: Anyone else eat out/carryout all the time?

Anonymous wrote:Family of four. Me and husband both work fulltime jobs. I work a pretty steady 40 hours a week, but husband generally works about 50-60 hours a week. This means I have to drive the kids to all their activities so I don't have much time to cook. We probably eat out 5 times a week. Lunch is almost always at home but dinner is usually carryout from a restaurant. I feel like such a failure for eating out so much. Anyone else eat out this much? Help me feel better about my excessive eating out please. We do try to keep fast food to once a week and will get food from Whole Foods, cava salads, bbq, things like that.


No, we almost never eat out. But my kids are picky and we’re fairly poor, so at least that’s not you guys?
Anonymous
Post 08/08/2023 16:32     Subject: Anyone else eat out/carryout all the time?

The added sugars and sodium in take out foods - yes even from so-called healthy places - is doing a number on your health and kids’ health. There are a lot of healthy weight healthy appearing people in USA who have metabolic disorder and who are developing NAFLD beginning in teens and early adulthood.

Do a few hours of food prep with your kids every weekend. You’ll teach them valuable skills and you can prep ahead lunches and dinners too - so many healthy meals you can prep ahead and quickly cook or reheat when you get home from activities. Or foods that travel well and can be eaten on the fly. It’s just a matter of a little planning and a little investment of time but the payoff is huge.

If you don’t teach your kids healthy home cooking skills now, when will they learn them? Or will they join the many Americans who eat takeout nearly the majority of the time, and ultra processed foods most of the rest of the time?
Anonymous
Post 08/08/2023 16:22     Subject: Anyone else eat out/carryout all the time?

Anonymous wrote:
Healthy take-out? That's unlikely to happen, unless you ask for a dry salad. Restaurants will hide extra fat and salt in sauces and marinades, and cook things in butter or oil, because they want to make flavors pop. It's only an ignorant non-cook who would say something like this.

OP, you might want to get into slow-cooking.I see this as your only home dinner option. It's pretty fun for winter - all kinds of stews and curries from around the world are available to you.


Me again. Actually, not the only option. I just remembered my cousin's solution, which is to spend part of her Sunday making meals for the week and organizing it in neatly labeled glass containers in her fridge. Looked like something out of a magazine, it was all so nicely arranged. Carbs, veggies, fruit and protein all ready to mix and match, and reheat. But you might not be ready to level up. I know I'm not