Anonymous
Post 08/08/2023 07:57     Subject: WYR: Marry person you lost virginity to, or work at your first job for the rest of your life
Anonymous wrote:I did both- married the guy and still in my first salaried job out of grad school (had other gig jobs and hourly work before though). I’m in my 30s


I did both too. And I'm in my late 50s.
Anonymous
Post 08/08/2023 07:21     Subject: WYR: Marry person you lost virginity to, or work at your first job for the rest of your life
I'd marry the guy I lost my virginity to. He's successful and still has all his hair in his 50s.
Anonymous
Post 08/08/2023 07:09     Subject: Re:WYR: Marry person you lost virginity to, or work at your first job for the rest of your life
I already married my first (and only).
Anonymous
Post 08/08/2023 07:04     Subject: WYR: Marry person you lost virginity to, or work at your first job for the rest of your life

Tough choice.

#1. He’s now divorced, no children and openly propositioned me at our 25 year reunion. I believe we’d be toxic together and he’s not at all attractive to me BUT

#2. My first job out of college had me traveling as a sales rep and it was absolutely exhausting and soul crushing.
Anonymous
Post 08/08/2023 06:57     Subject: Re:WYR: Marry person you lost virginity to, or work at your first job for the rest of your life
The guy I lost my virginity to didn’t give me orgasms, so I’d say job for sure.
Anonymous
Post 08/08/2023 06:40     Subject: WYR: Marry person you lost virginity to, or work at your first job for the rest of your life
huh. I mean he was one of the best sexual partners I ever had. But he sucked as a person and broke my heart.

I would also like to not have to work as a hostess in a restaurant my entire life.

I think I don't like this game. lol.
Anonymous
Post 08/08/2023 06:06     Subject: WYR: Marry person you lost virginity to, or work at your first job for the rest of your life
Oh boy. Both were really really bad.
Anonymous
Post 08/08/2023 05:41     Subject: WYR: Marry person you lost virginity to, or work at your first job for the rest of your life
Either would be fine for me. If I had to pick one it would be the guy.
Anonymous
Post 08/08/2023 04:01     Subject: WYR: Marry person you lost virginity to, or work at your first job for the rest of your life
Wow, sorry to hear about the rapes.
Id pick #1. He was a nice guy.
Anonymous
Post 08/08/2023 00:57     Subject: WYR: Marry person you lost virginity to, or work at your first job for the rest of your life
Definitely #1. My first job was crap. Not my first "salaried job," my first actual job.
Anonymous
Post 08/08/2023 00:55     Subject: WYR: Marry person you lost virginity to, or work at your first job for the rest of your life
I already married and then divorced him 14 years later. Guess I'll take 1st job?
Anonymous
Post 08/08/2023 00:52     Subject: WYR: Marry person you lost virginity to, or work at your first job for the rest of your life
Anonymous wrote:When I was a 14 year old boy a 22 year old woman got me drunk and high and raped me. That’s how I lost my virginity.

I got my first job that same year. I was a dishwasher.

So, tell me, OP: which one should I pick?


President of France chose #1
Anonymous
Post 08/07/2023 23:40     Subject: WYR: Marry person you lost virginity to, or work at your first job for the rest of your life
Anonymous wrote:I did the first. I was fired from the second for incompetence, so they probably wouldn't take me back. 30 years last month, though, so the first worked out.


+1, except I wasn’t fired. But I don’t want to work at the Gap. Been married 20 years and the good has far outweighed the bad.
Anonymous
Post 08/07/2023 22:58     Subject: WYR: Marry person you lost virginity to, or work at your first job for the rest of your life
I did the first. I was fired from the second for incompetence, so they probably wouldn't take me back. 30 years last month, though, so the first worked out.
Anonymous
Post 08/07/2023 22:55     Subject: WYR: Marry person you lost virginity to, or work at your first job for the rest of your life
When I was a 14 year old boy a 22 year old woman got me drunk and high and raped me. That’s how I lost my virginity.

I got my first job that same year. I was a dishwasher.

So, tell me, OP: which one should I pick?