Anonymous
Post 08/07/2023 18:35     Subject: Brother criticizing how I dress DS
Anonymous wrote:It's mostly preppy stuff. DS is 4 and couldn't care less what he looks like. I don't put him in anything with words, cartoon characters, pictures of sports or transportation, and very few animals. I figure at some point DS will care about his clothes and voice opinions, but until then, I may as well dress him how I like. My brother is visiting (arrived today, for a long weekend) and can't stop talking about how DS looks stupid, must get beat up daily at preschool, will get beat up when he goes to elementary school, looks like a pansy, a wimp, on and on.

He's not dressed like Little Lord Fauntleroy, or wearing bow ties or anything like that. My brother has very narrow ideas on gender. How can I shut this talk down so I don't have to listen to him for the next four days, and he doesn't give DS a complex? I've already told my brother DS gets compliments on his looks and he suggested they came from losers.


Hey, Bro, STFU about how my kid is dressed.
Anonymous
Post 08/07/2023 14:43     Subject: Brother criticizing how I dress DS
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Your brother is a bigot. Tell him to
Leave and don’t invite him back. Why on earth do you want to spend time with this person?


He is staying with us for a local family wedding. We didn't just invite him for a random visit.


Where he stays after you kick him out is his concern, not yours. He's an adult.
Anonymous
Post 08/07/2023 14:39     Subject: Brother criticizing how I dress DS
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Your brother sounds like a jerk. He really used the word pansy?
Having said that yes you can dress your kid how you like, but what do you have against shirts with animals on? Boden has some lovely animal appliqué shirts.


He used that word and another word that starts with an F. He thinks real men don't wear pink, or nail polish, etc. One of those guys.


Yikes. He wouldn’t be staying in my house, let alone saying things like this to or about my son.
Anonymous
Post 08/07/2023 14:35     Subject: Brother criticizing how I dress DS
Anonymous wrote:Sounds like both of you are rigid about how you think your kid should dress.


Sounds like you're an a$$.
Anonymous
Post 08/07/2023 09:19     Subject: Brother criticizing how I dress DS
Anonymous wrote:"If I hear anymore comments like that you'll have to stay somewhere else. Shut up or leave."


This. Time to stand up against your rude, ridiculous brother.
Anonymous
Post 08/07/2023 08:24     Subject: Re:Brother criticizing how I dress DS
Your brother sounds like a loser.
Anonymous
Post 08/04/2023 23:20     Subject: Brother criticizing how I dress DS
Bro better leave the house before he catches the gay from your son. Is he having trouble controlling his urges because DS looks too pretty?

Where is he visiting from? Central Florida?
Anonymous
Post 08/04/2023 22:59     Subject: Brother criticizing how I dress DS
Anonymous wrote:This can’t be real. Your houseguest calls your preschooler a f****t and you’re asking how to proceed? Mmkay.


But OP claims he is staying for a local family member's wedding! As if that makes his bigoted homophobic rants somehow OK. Any sane person would show him the door.
Anonymous
Post 08/04/2023 21:49     Subject: Brother criticizing how I dress DS
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Your brother is a bigot. Tell him to
Leave and don’t invite him back. Why on earth do you want to spend time with this person?


He is staying with us for a local family wedding. We didn't just invite him for a random visit.


Then there must be other places he could stay. Perhaps a MAGA loving bachelor uncle? I don’t tolerate slurs in home.


Same. I would not let my kids be exposed to that. Zero tolerance
Anonymous
Post 08/04/2023 18:45     Subject: Brother criticizing how I dress DS
"If I hear anymore comments like that you'll have to stay somewhere else. Shut up or leave."
Anonymous
Post 08/04/2023 18:41     Subject: Brother criticizing how I dress DS
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Your brother is a bigot. Tell him to
Leave and don’t invite him back. Why on earth do you want to spend time with this person?


He is staying with us for a local family wedding. We didn't just invite him for a random visit.


Then there must be other places he could stay. Perhaps a MAGA loving bachelor uncle? I don’t tolerate slurs in home.
Anonymous
Post 08/04/2023 18:34     Subject: Brother criticizing how I dress DS
This can’t be real. Your houseguest calls your preschooler a f****t and you’re asking how to proceed? Mmkay.
Anonymous
Post 08/04/2023 18:32     Subject: Brother criticizing how I dress DS
Anonymous wrote:“Brother, when you have kids you can dress them the way you want. This is my kid. If you don’t knock it off you won’t be welcome in our house henceforth.”

“You won’t be welcome in our house henceforth” OPs brother is a raging bigot and a-hole, but FFS no one talks like that. The scripts here are the worst.
Anonymous
Post 08/04/2023 18:27     Subject: Brother criticizing how I dress DS
“Brother, when you have kids you can dress them the way you want. This is my kid. If you don’t knock it off you won’t be welcome in our house henceforth.”
Anonymous
Post 08/04/2023 18:15     Subject: Brother criticizing how I dress DS
Anonymous wrote:Your brother is a bigot. Tell him to
Leave and don’t invite him back. Why on earth do you want to spend time with this person?


He is staying with us for a local family wedding. We didn't just invite him for a random visit.