Anonymous
07/23/2023 16:58
Subject: My good friend’s husband is cheating do I tell her??
Send her an anonymous email. Don’t approach him could be violent
Anonymous
07/23/2023 16:55
Subject: My good friend’s husband is cheating do I tell her??
Absolutely tell. She may choose to stay, but at least she will be choosing with ALL the information.
Anonymous
07/23/2023 16:48
Subject: My good friend’s husband is cheating do I tell her??
Anonymous wrote:I vote for anonymous note in the mail, cut letters out of magazines for the text. Make the envelope look benign in case her husband brings in the mail.
Omg no op is not writing a ransom note!
Anonymous
07/23/2023 16:48
Subject: My good friend’s husband is cheating do I tell her??
Anonymous wrote:I would not tell. He will deny, she might go hard core denial, and both of them despise you.
+1,000,000. It must be hard to have this info but you will lose the friendship.
Anonymous
07/23/2023 16:47
Subject: My good friend’s husband is cheating do I tell her??
+1 to burner email or anon note in mail (tho prefer the former - so easy) but you need proof
Anonymous
07/23/2023 16:43
Subject: My good friend’s husband is cheating do I tell her??
Anonymous wrote:I vote for anonymous note in the mail, cut letters out of magazines for the text. Make the envelope look benign in case her husband brings in the mail.
My DH opens mail for me. Don't do that. Just let it go.
Anonymous
07/23/2023 16:43
Subject: My good friend’s husband is cheating do I tell her??
She needs to know for health reasons.
Anonymous
07/23/2023 16:42
Subject: My good friend’s husband is cheating do I tell her??
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Is her husband a stranger to you or something? Why don’t you ask him what’s going on before you become a homewrecker?
OP, do not go to the husband. He will destroy all communications, photos, etc that he has with the AP and go dark. He'll also probably start a campaign against you with his wife.
This!
Anonymous
07/23/2023 16:42
Subject: My good friend’s husband is cheating do I tell her??
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Is her husband a stranger to you or something? Why don’t you ask him what’s going on before you become a homewrecker?
Easily the dumbest advice in the whole post.
P.S. The only one doing any 'homewrecking' is the husband, allegedly.
+1.
If her DH is not your friend, don't waste your breathe on him.
Anonymous
07/23/2023 16:39
Subject: My good friend’s husband is cheating do I tell her??
Anonymous wrote:Is her husband a stranger to you or something? Why don’t you ask him what’s going on before you become a homewrecker?
Easily the dumbest advice in the whole post.
P.S. The only one doing any 'homewrecking' is the husband, allegedly.
Anonymous
07/23/2023 16:28
Subject: My good friend’s husband is cheating do I tell her??
What proof do you have, OP?
Anonymous
07/23/2023 16:28
Subject: My good friend’s husband is cheating do I tell her??
I vote for anonymous note in the mail, cut letters out of magazines for the text. Make the envelope look benign in case her husband brings in the mail.
Anonymous
07/23/2023 16:27
Subject: My good friend’s husband is cheating do I tell her??
Anonymous wrote:Only if you have solid, undeniable proof (photos or something). Don't go to her with idiotic assumptions or idle gossip.
I agree. Also, if you do this in-person, stay very neutral and non-judgmental. Often people decide to stay together after an affair.
Anonymous
07/23/2023 16:27
Subject: Re:My good friend’s husband is cheating do I tell her??
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous note in mail
+1 with photographic evidence if you can
+1
Agree - go anon, OP.
She might not take it well (and might be the type to tell others to divorce over much lesser offenses!)
Anonymous
07/23/2023 16:23
Subject: Re:My good friend’s husband is cheating do I tell her??
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous note in mail
+1 with photographic evidence if you can