Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I mean, I hate my husband as much as anybody else, but he's kind of a rock here in this family.

+1

We are on vacation right now and he was playing with our son in the ocean this morning. When he got out of the water he had that scruffy summer hair look, and definitely the best body on the beach. Now I can’t wait till DS goes to bed tonight.

Gross. Nobody wants to hear that.

It’s fascinating to me that women think it’s appropriate behavior to dish about their husbands’ character flaws either anonymously on internet sites or in person with mere acquaintances, but it’s boorish of men to comment on women’s physical attributes (or lack thereof), when even in that case they probably aren’t criticizing their own spouses.

Men generally think criticizing their spouses reflects poorly on them for having settled down with a fat/flat/dumb/whiny woman, but most women seem to have no such filter or inhibitions.

Mine is awesome but definitely has Male Selective Hearing. Got it from his dad. And bam! There’s the MIL smack down too!

So much sock puppeting by OP. Again.

Anonymous wrote:Men have it hard. I mean, they are the armpit of the family, and now DCUM is dumping on them bigtime. But they take out the trash, pick up dead animals, talk to the plumber, clean the hair out of drains, make dinner, put kids to bed, and generally do a lot of that gross sh!t around the house that I don't want to do. I honestly wonder what I bring to this marriage. And for all that I can handle his hating the pool, being socially awkward, having atrocious handwriting, not ever putting his keys on their designated hook.

This sub-forum is the haunt of “The Coven of Bitter Divorcées.”

There is an active group of women here who really hate men.

I don’t think it’s the SAHMs generally complaining about Hubby being a dud. Usually it’s the career women who’ve married a low-T man. Then they complain about him forever.

Or they divorce and end up living in some apartment that reeks of Chardonnay, vanilla-scented candles, cat urine and despair. This usually ends up in another generation of boys who have no father figure, and who then end up becoming Omega Males themselves.

Anonymous wrote:It wouldn't be DCUM if it wasn't full of SAHM's sipping wine and complaining about their husbands who don't do any work, while sitting in their multi-million dollar houses while their kids are at expensive camps and their husbands slave away at the office.

Hey I'm a Fed slaving away at the office right now. Thank you for paying your taxes!

It wouldn't be DCUM if it wasn't full of SAHM's sipping wine and complaining about their husbands who don't do any work, while sitting in their multi-million dollar houses while their kids are at expensive camps and their husbands slave away at the office.

Anonymous wrote:Men have it hard. I mean, they are the armpit of the family, and now DCUM is dumping on them bigtime. But they take out the trash, pick up dead animals, talk to the plumber, clean the hair out of drains, make dinner, put kids to bed, and generally do a lot of that gross sh!t around the house that I don't want to do. I honestly wonder what I bring to this marriage. And for all that I can handle his hating the pool, being socially awkward, having atrocious handwriting, not ever putting his keys on their designated hook.

OP, I am sorry you feel this way. Man or woman, everyone should feel desired, needed in a marriage.

Anonymous wrote:Men have it hard. I mean, they are the armpit of the family, and now DCUM is dumping on them bigtime. But they take out the trash, pick up dead animals, talk to the plumber, clean the hair out of drains, make dinner, put kids to bed, and generally do a lot of that gross sh!t around the house that I don't want to do. I honestly wonder what I bring to this marriage. And for all that I can handle his hating the pool, being socially awkward, having atrocious handwriting, not ever putting his keys on their designated hook.

Maybe you don't bring much. You are saying we should compare what we do as women instead?

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Men have it hard. I mean, they are the armpit of the family, and now DCUM is dumping on them bigtime. But they take out the trash, pick up dead animals, talk to the plumber, clean the hair out of drains, make dinner, put kids to bed, and generally do a lot of that gross sh!t around the house that I don't want to do. I honestly wonder what I bring to this marriage. And for all that I can handle his hating the pool, being socially awkward, having atrocious handwriting, not ever putting his keys on their designated hook.

Huh? Mine is batting 5% of what you listed above. And nothing to sub in.

And you do 95 obviously. Very DCUM women like

And she still has time to post constantly on DCUM!

I can take care of clogged drains, dead animals and opening jars all by myself.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I mean, I hate my husband as much as anybody else, but he's kind of a rock here in this family.

+1

We are on vacation right now and he was playing with our son in the ocean this morning. When he got out of the water he had that scruffy summer hair look, and definitely the best body on the beach. Now I can’t wait till DS goes to bed tonight.

Don't worry, he'll unknowingly say something mildly annoying or someone will cut you off in traffic or your dinner order will be messed up or your son will have a fussy moment or something will come up between now and then to kill the mood.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Men have it hard. I mean, they are the armpit of the family, and now DCUM is dumping on them bigtime. But they take out the trash, pick up dead animals, talk to the plumber, clean the hair out of drains, make dinner, put kids to bed, and generally do a lot of that gross sh!t around the house that I don't want to do. I honestly wonder what I bring to this marriage. And for all that I can handle his hating the pool, being socially awkward, having atrocious handwriting, not ever putting his keys on their designated hook.

Huh? Mine is batting 5% of what you listed above. And nothing to sub in.

And you do 95 obviously. Very DCUM women like

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Men have it hard. I mean, they are the armpit of the family, and now DCUM is dumping on them bigtime. But they take out the trash, pick up dead animals, talk to the plumber, clean the hair out of drains, make dinner, put kids to bed, and generally do a lot of that gross sh!t around the house that I don't want to do. I honestly wonder what I bring to this marriage. And for all that I can handle his hating the pool, being socially awkward, having atrocious handwriting, not ever putting his keys on their designated hook.

What the hell does this mean?

She mean jock itch. Smell the boxers in the hamper and find out