Anonymous
Post 05/05/2023 22:29     Subject: What secrets do most of your friends & family not know about you?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I’ll start: I had a brief, 3-year marriage in my 20s.


I also had a brief marriage in my 20s that almost no one knows about

I’ve had more than one abortion

I was sexually abused as a child, by multiple people

I am a survivor of domestic abuse

I was marginally homeless for about a year in my 20s


I am now in a very happy marriage, have three beautiful kids, have a very comfortable HHI, and have a stable, boring job. Most people would be shocked to learn these things about me.


Have you had therapy?

Does your spouse know?

Do you think there are emotional scars that influence how you I aren’t?
Anonymous
Post 05/05/2023 22:29     Subject: Re:What secrets do most of your friends & family not know about you?
Anonymous wrote:DH & I are in a poly quad and have been for years.


Have I maybe seen you on tinder or yelp? I've seen yelpers look for a third.
Anonymous
Post 05/05/2023 22:28     Subject: Re:What secrets do most of your friends & family not know about you?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:My parents are 1st cousins.


Yikes!


The way some people are around here and their common sense in driving id say many people in this area could have parents who were closely related.
Anonymous
Post 05/05/2023 22:27     Subject: What secrets do most of your friends & family not know about you?
Anonymous wrote:I’m a closet homo


Are you married?

If yes, that is not okay.

If not, what do you fear about coming out?
Anonymous
Post 05/05/2023 22:27     Subject: Re:What secrets do most of your friends & family not know about you?
DH & I are in a poly quad and have been for years.
Anonymous
Post 05/05/2023 22:26     Subject: What secrets do most of your friends & family not know about you?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I’ll start: I had a brief, 3-year marriage in my 20s.


I also had a brief marriage in my 20s that almost no one knows about

I’ve had more than one abortion

I was sexually abused as a child, by multiple people

I am a survivor of domestic abuse

I was marginally homeless for about a year in my 20s


I am now in a very happy marriage, have three beautiful kids, have a very comfortable HHI, and have a stable, boring job. Most people would be shocked to learn these things about me.


It's not that hard to believe actually. Especially if you have a stable boring highly paid government job.
Anonymous
Post 05/05/2023 22:25     Subject: Re:What secrets do most of your friends & family not know about you?
Anonymous wrote:My parents are 1st cousins.


Yikes!
Anonymous
Post 05/05/2023 22:25     Subject: What secrets do most of your friends & family not know about you?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Abortion when I had kids who were elementary age. I don’t regret it at all. My sisters who are my best friends don’t even know. I kind of want to scream it from the roof tops given how backward this country has become about women’s body autonomy.


Then why are you keeping it as a secret? Go scream about it.


You know, now that a stranger on the Internet had given me permission, maybe I will 🙄🙄🙄


Why keep it a secret if you don't regret it though?
Anonymous
Post 05/05/2023 22:25     Subject: What secrets do most of your friends & family not know about you?
Anonymous wrote:I’ll start: I had a brief, 3-year marriage in my 20s.


I also had a brief marriage in my 20s that almost no one knows about

I’ve had more than one abortion

I was sexually abused as a child, by multiple people

I am a survivor of domestic abuse

I was marginally homeless for about a year in my 20s


I am now in a very happy marriage, have three beautiful kids, have a very comfortable HHI, and have a stable, boring job. Most people would be shocked to learn these things about me.
Anonymous
Post 05/05/2023 22:23     Subject: Re:What secrets do most of your friends & family not know about you?
Anonymous wrote:My parents are 1st cousins.


Curious, what ethnicity are you? Is it cultural?
Anonymous
Post 05/05/2023 19:13     Subject: What secrets do most of your friends & family not know about you?
I’m a closet homo
Anonymous
Post 05/05/2023 19:00     Subject: What secrets do most of your friends & family not know about you?
I had an abortion in college.
Anonymous
Post 05/05/2023 18:59     Subject: What secrets do most of your friends & family not know about you?
Anonymous wrote:I was a total slacker in high school. It told me 6 years to graduate from college. I moved away, reinvented myself and I’m relatively successful.


Also I experimented with lots of drugs. Not heroin or anything but I tried coke a few times. smoked hash, took mushrooms and acid, and I still use cannabis.
Anonymous
Post 05/05/2023 18:56     Subject: Re:What secrets do most of your friends & family not know about you?
I’m not the age that our friends think I am.
Anonymous
Post 05/05/2023 18:55     Subject: What secrets do most of your friends & family not know about you?
I was a total slacker in high school. It told me 6 years to graduate from college. I moved away, reinvented myself and I’m relatively successful.