Anonymous wrote:I preface this by meaning a Working Mom with multiple young kids and a non supportive husband.
There really is no difference someone two full time jobs and and an overwhelmed working mom as both disappearing during work day, cameras off sometimes, mysterious appointments on work calendar.
I had a women three young kids (all under 6) long commute and husband who traveled all the time also taking care of one older parent.
Another single young guy you could tell had second full time job and like to party and stay out late.
Both equally got out the same amount of sloppy bare minimum work delivered late.
Being a mom is a full time job. That is if husband does not help. But why is that not frowned upon as much?
Should the two people above be treated differently.
In above story single guy canned no warning, Mom got PIP, efforts made to make it work then canned 3 months later. But why treat it differently at all.
And a Dad juggling three kids no wife same thing. I have a coworker wife in Rehab for drugs and he also is slipping
Marrying and having children with the wrong person and picking wrong profession are some of the reasons behind most of these issues but not giving a toss for trying to learn how to make things work and ability to patiently do that, is the main reason.