Anonymous
Post 04/19/2023 23:17     Subject: Are affairs with Au Pairs common?
Anonymous wrote:For some years, I have had a dead bedroom and a string of very pretty nannies and babysitters. I always think I'm going to want to sleep with them, but each time, it doesn't take long for me to realize they're not worth it.


Do you think they would agree to sleeping with you?
Anonymous
Post 04/19/2023 23:09     Subject: Are affairs with Au Pairs common?
For some years, I have had a dead bedroom and a string of very pretty nannies and babysitters. I always think I'm going to want to sleep with them, but each time, it doesn't take long for me to realize they're not worth it.
Anonymous
Post 04/19/2023 22:57     Subject: Re:Are affairs with Au Pairs common?
Anonymous wrote:The man was a window but basically that was the story line in A Sound of Music


She was a nun nanny! That's outrageous! And he may have been an open book but he was definitely not a window!
Anonymous
Post 04/19/2023 22:56     Subject: Re:Are affairs with Au Pairs common?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I would never have another attractive woman working on my house. Why even create a temptation?


I feel like the less attractive women are a bigger issue because they’re the ones willing to sleep with your DH. Really attractive young women don’t want anything to do with middle aged married men. They can find a hot, rich single man.


Good point. Our pretty au pairs have dated rich young professional guys.
Anonymous
Post 04/19/2023 22:54     Subject: Are affairs with Au Pairs common?
We have had au pairs for a decade, so we have heard lots of tea. Do not know of a single au pair having an au pair with the dad. A handful of dads triggered a rematch by being creepers though!
Anonymous
Post 04/19/2023 22:53     Subject: Are affairs with Au Pairs common?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:No. Young attractive women mostly have no interest in middle aged men.

Tell yourself whatever you need to so you can sleep at night, but life is more nuanced than that. Young or old, most women are looking for a man who is stable and a good provider, especially in this economy with a recession looming. If the married dad still looks pretty good, is affable and wealthy, his age and marital status will be ignored.

Frankly, if you bring a young, gorgeous woman into your home and put her in front of your husband multiple days per week... you're playing with fire. Most husbands love their wives and aren't inclined to cheat, but human beings are flawed.


I don’t know…I was a nanny for several families over almost a decade and, while some of the dads were good looking for older guys and the families had $$$, there is no way I would have ever considered sleeping with one of them. To be fair, I’m was never financially desperate enough to consider sex work

Anonymous
Post 04/19/2023 22:51     Subject: Re:Are affairs with Au Pairs common?
Anonymous wrote:I would never have another attractive woman working on my house. Why even create a temptation?


I feel like the less attractive women are a bigger issue because they’re the ones willing to sleep with your DH. Really attractive young women don’t want anything to do with middle aged married men. They can find a hot, rich single man.
Anonymous
Post 04/19/2023 22:38     Subject: Re:Are affairs with Au Pairs common?
Anonymous wrote:No but Betsy devos’s brother attended his wife’s funeral with the pregnant nanny.

Erik Prince started sleeping with his kids' nanny when Wife #1 was diagnosed with cancer. Wife found out, told people to keep the nanny away from her kids. Wife dies, nanny is already pregnant and attends her funeral with Erik. Erik married her a year later. They are now divorced and he's married to someone else.
Anonymous
Post 04/19/2023 22:25     Subject: Re:Are affairs with Au Pairs common?
I didn’t know a single family growing up that had an affair. Knew one family divorced so maybe. It’s just unreal to me how common they are now. With so many people.
Anonymous
Post 04/19/2023 22:23     Subject: Re:Are affairs with Au Pairs common?
I would never have another attractive woman working on my house. Why even create a temptation?
Anonymous
Post 04/19/2023 22:05     Subject: Are affairs with Au Pairs common?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:DH here: I only slept with one of our six au pairs, so your odds are good it’s not happening.


NP. Appreciate the honesty.


Lol I was just trolling, I suspect affairs with the au pair are not 1-in-6 common in real life. Or maybe it was a skill issue on my part.
Anonymous
Post 04/19/2023 21:50     Subject: Re:Are affairs with Au Pairs common?
The man was a window but basically that was the story line in A Sound of Music
Anonymous
Post 04/19/2023 21:49     Subject: Re:Are affairs with Au Pairs common?
Anonymous wrote:No but Betsy devos’s brother attended his wife’s funeral with the pregnant nanny.


Wait what I need to Google this
Anonymous
Post 04/19/2023 21:49     Subject: Are affairs with Au Pairs common?
Anonymous wrote:DH here: I only slept with one of our six au pairs, so your odds are good it’s not happening.


NP. Appreciate the honesty.
Anonymous
Post 04/19/2023 21:44     Subject: Re:Are affairs with Au Pairs common?
No but Betsy devos’s brother attended his wife’s funeral with the pregnant nanny.