Anonymous
Post 04/03/2023 07:25     Subject: Re:Do you find it alluring if a man orders for you at a restaurant?
Anonymous wrote:I find this very sexy! Take charge! Of course, I will convey my order first -- but I like to be ordered "for". And sometimes ordered around


+1.

Anonymous
Post 04/03/2023 07:06     Subject: Do you find it alluring if a man orders for you at a restaurant?
No.
Anonymous
Post 04/03/2023 07:03     Subject: Re:Do you find it alluring if a man orders for you at a restaurant?
Anonymous wrote:I guess those who don't like it also don't like a man who opens the door for you.


Wrong.
Anonymous
Post 04/03/2023 07:03     Subject: Re:Do you find it alluring if a man orders for you at a restaurant?
As long as he asked me what I wanted first I don’t mind and might like it.
Anonymous
Post 04/03/2023 06:51     Subject: Re:Do you find it alluring if a man orders for you at a restaurant?
Anonymous wrote:I guess those who don't like it also don't like a man who opens the door for you.


Correct. If you want to help do something useful that’s actually annoying and hard to do. Like regrout my shower competently.
Anonymous
Post 04/03/2023 03:24     Subject: Re:Do you find it alluring if a man orders for you at a restaurant?
I guess those who don't like it also don't like a man who opens the door for you.
Anonymous
Post 04/03/2023 02:43     Subject: Do you find it alluring if a man orders for you at a restaurant?
Nope
Anonymous
Post 04/02/2023 22:37     Subject: Do you find it alluring if a man orders for you at a restaurant?
Ew no. But I would like to order for him and pick my second choice so I don’t have FOMO.
Anonymous
Post 04/02/2023 21:24     Subject: Do you find it alluring if a man orders for you at a restaurant?
Gross.
Anonymous
Post 04/02/2023 21:22     Subject: Re:Do you find it alluring if a man orders for you at a restaurant?
Would he find it alluring if I ordered for him? No, he wouldn't. He'd feel it was disrespectful, controlling and dismissive of his ability to speak for himself. Why would I feel any different if he ordered for me? Unless, of course, if I were in the bathroom.
Anonymous
Post 04/02/2023 21:02     Subject: Re:Do you find it alluring if a man orders for you at a restaurant?
Would I find it "alluring?" NO! I think I would find it controlling and "good-bye."
Anonymous
Post 04/02/2023 21:01     Subject: Do you find it alluring if a man orders for you at a restaurant?
My DH does this for me sometimes, but only when I ask him to. When I’m hungry and my blood sugar drops I have a hard time processing the menu and making decisions. I ask him to order something I’ll like and he does. It is wonderful.

But in any other situation, ew. He never would have done this early in our relationship.
Anonymous
Post 04/02/2023 20:59     Subject: Do you find it alluring if a man orders for you at a restaurant?
Anonymous wrote:Yes, and I also love it when he cuts my meat for me, and chews my food for me if it is too tough. I prefer to sit on his lap during meals as well.


I like it when he chews it up and then regurgitates it into my mouth like a mother bird.
Anonymous
Post 04/02/2023 20:59     Subject: Re:Do you find it alluring if a man orders for you at a restaurant?
Eww.
Anonymous
Post 04/02/2023 20:29     Subject: Re:Do you find it alluring if a man orders for you at a restaurant?
Absolutely not. What is the point of this?