Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think you can do it and should give it a try. Hire help if you need to. Your dad's care is the most important thing and it sounds like you know that.

Yes, OP you should do it. Your own personal safety and sanity and the lives of those who may live with you don't matter! Your dad's care is the most important thing. Give it a try! What could possibly go wrong? I mean really. Who cares if you injure yourself/lose your mind/injure your loved one/have a nervous breakdown/drive those in your home insane, etc etc. Take in your elder and please remodel your home too while you are at it so it is as safe as possible. Also, just go ahead and quit your job. None of this take time off nonsense.