Anonymous
Post 03/11/2023 07:54     Subject: Re:Coming of age movies in the same vein as My Girl and Now and Then?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:The Man in the Moon (Reese Witherspoon's film debut)


Amazing movie. This is your answer OP.


Came here to post this. LOVED this movie as a tween (also loved Stand By Me, fwiw).
Anonymous
Post 03/11/2023 01:28     Subject: Coming of age movies in the same vein as My Girl and Now and Then?
Anonymous wrote:Watched (and re-watched!) a ton of movies over the past few years with my cousins and our girls. These were some of the ones they liked. Some are more mature than others.

Little Women (1994 and 2019)
The Man in the Moon
Dirty Dancing
Edge of Seventeen
Fly Away Home
Mermaids
Harriet the Spy (DS loves this too)
Thirteen
Lucas
Tall Girl and Tall Girl 2
Juno
13 going on 30
Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants

I also thought they would love the John Hughes movies, which are pretty tame in retrospect, but they didn't really "get" them. Sentimental for me though.


Loved Lucas!!

Freaky Friday ?
Anonymous
Post 03/11/2023 00:59     Subject: Coming of age movies in the same vein as My Girl and Now and Then?
Spirited away, the animated film

Anonymous
Post 03/10/2023 23:59     Subject: Coming of age movies in the same vein as My Girl and Now and Then?
The way Way Back
Anonymous
Post 03/10/2023 23:59     Subject: Coming of age movies in the same vein as My Girl and Now and Then?
16 candles
Breakfast Club
Grease
Anonymous
Post 03/10/2023 16:25     Subject: Coming of age movies in the same vein as My Girl and Now and Then?
Bridge to terebithia
Anonymous
Post 03/10/2023 16:22     Subject: Re:Coming of age movies in the same vein as My Girl and Now and Then?
Anonymous wrote:The Man in the Moon (Reese Witherspoon's film debut)
I love this movie.
Anonymous
Post 03/10/2023 16:14     Subject: Coming of age movies in the same vein as My Girl and Now and Then?
8th grade is my favorite, but it might be a little heavy for a 12 year old
Anonymous
Post 03/10/2023 16:13     Subject: Coming of age movies in the same vein as My Girl and Now and Then?
Freaky Friday
Parent Trap
Clueless
Babysitters Club
Anonymous
Post 03/10/2023 15:47     Subject: Re:Coming of age movies in the same vein as My Girl and Now and Then?
How to Make An American Quilt. I love this movie.
Anonymous
Post 03/10/2023 14:17     Subject: Re:Coming of age movies in the same vein as My Girl and Now and Then?
Anonymous wrote:I don’t understand why you wouldn’t watch Stand By Me because the main characters are boys? I have a DD and DS and they’ve both seen My Girl and liked. Books and movies don’t have gender. We need to stop acting like they do.


They absolutely do “have a gender.” If you don’t think boys are more into stereotypically boy movies and girls into girl movies (because they can relate to the characters of their own gender more intimately), you’re just being deliberately obtuse. And please don’t anyone parachute in with the “but I’m a girl and loved Stand by Me!”
Anonymous
Post 03/10/2023 14:13     Subject: Re:Coming of age movies in the same vein as My Girl and Now and Then?
Anonymous wrote:I don’t understand why you wouldn’t watch Stand By Me because the main characters are boys? I have a DD and DS and they’ve both seen My Girl and liked. Books and movies don’t have gender. We need to stop acting like they do.

I get it, PP, but I also understand why a girl might want to watch movies made mostly for girls. Why aren’t you mad that Now and Then and Lady Bird are movies mostly made to relate to women/young women? It’s ok for a movie to be that sometimes.
Anonymous
Post 03/10/2023 14:09     Subject: Coming of age movies in the same vein as My Girl and Now and Then?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Stand by me


"other than Stand By Me"


Stand by Me is great for any gender, but I do think it was better for a kid slightly older than 12.
Anonymous
Post 03/10/2023 14:05     Subject: Coming of age movies in the same vein as My Girl and Now and Then?
Anonymous wrote:Watched (and re-watched!) a ton of movies over the past few years with my cousins and our girls. These were some of the ones they liked. Some are more mature than others.

Little Women (1994 and 2019)
The Man in the Moon
Dirty Dancing
Edge of Seventeen
Fly Away Home
Mermaids
Harriet the Spy (DS loves this too)
Thirteen
Lucas
Tall Girl and Tall Girl 2
Juno
13 going on 30
Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants

+1 to the bolded. A few of the listed movies are more sexual than I’m comfortable showing an 11-year-old. Sisterhood is a great movie (and book), but Blake Lively’s character sleeps with her soccer coach at summer camp. The emotional aftermath is portrayed well and you may find it beneficial for your child to see that.
Anonymous
Post 03/10/2023 13:59     Subject: Coming of age movies in the same vein as My Girl and Now and Then?
13 Going on 30
Clueless
A Walk to Remember
Legally Blonde