Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why rely on him for something you know he can’t give? Someone else needs to give you the words of comfort. You know that your Dad is a “helper”. Ask him for help.

Op here. I know I should just appreciate him for who he is but he’s the only family I have and so I think I’m wanting him to fill a huge void. I want him to validate me. Sometimes I’m not even sure if he likes me.

Only you can validate you. Your happiness is up to you. Get some in-depth counselling and stop whining.

Some parents can be sort of emotionally unavailable even when physically available. It's great he is at least physically available. Sounds like he may have a quirky personality. Just don't internalize it like it's about you, or you can make it better. Try to see him for what he can offer. Good luck!