Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Watch his interviews. The media did not represent it accurately
I did but I still have questions how it works.
Let’s say he gets prostate cancer at 75.
Is he going to mange it with pain medicine only?
Anonymous wrote:Dr. Emanuel said that HE didn't want medical intervention after age 75. Good for him. It's his choice. What's the big deal?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:We all agree that my father's aggressive medical treatment that prolonged his life a year was a mistake. We shouldn't have done it.
Hopefully it was your father who chose it. You don’t know how you would feel if you had not pursued it. My mom wanted lots of intervention, and it prolonged her life but her quality of life was not good, and she had a lot of pain. A lot of people would not think it was worth it but it’s what she wanted. Nowadays it seems like the pendulum has swung too far the other way and you are deemed almost selfish if you decide the way you want to fight is by using the medical intervention that is available. I wish everyone the option to choose for themselves how they want to spend the end of their time on earth.
I wish everyone had that option too. But if you open the the New York Times today, you can read about a 40 year old mom who isn’t getting basic health checkups and medication for very treatable conditions because her family is struggling to pay off an $8000 medical debt for a 3 day hospital stay her infant had for febrile seizures. She had insurance but a high deductible.
My point is that in an ideal world the elderly could have the best medical care possible. But when we as a society aren’t providing universal health care to basically healthy people, it’s ignorant not to talk about the trade offs.
That is as good an argument for Medicare for All as I have heard.
Beyond money, we don’t have enough medical providers, caregivers and facilities for the elderly. It’s not going to be nice for Boomers. I’m Gen X and watching closely.
Anonymous wrote:We all agree that my father's aggressive medical treatment that prolonged his life a year was a mistake. We shouldn't have done it.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:We all agree that my father's aggressive medical treatment that prolonged his life a year was a mistake. We shouldn't have done it.
Hopefully it was your father who chose it. You don’t know how you would feel if you had not pursued it. My mom wanted lots of intervention, and it prolonged her life but her quality of life was not good, and she had a lot of pain. A lot of people would not think it was worth it but it’s what she wanted. Nowadays it seems like the pendulum has swung too far the other way and you are deemed almost selfish if you decide the way you want to fight is by using the medical intervention that is available. I wish everyone the option to choose for themselves how they want to spend the end of their time on earth.
I wish everyone had that option too. But if you open the the New York Times today, you can read about a 40 year old mom who isn’t getting basic health checkups and medication for very treatable conditions because her family is struggling to pay off an $8000 medical debt for a 3 day hospital stay her infant had for febrile seizures. She had insurance but a high deductible.
My point is that in an ideal world the elderly could have the best medical care possible. But when we as a society aren’t providing universal health care to basically healthy people, it’s ignorant not to talk about the trade offs.
That is as good an argument for Medicare for All as I have heard.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:We all agree that my father's aggressive medical treatment that prolonged his life a year was a mistake. We shouldn't have done it.
Hopefully it was your father who chose it. You don’t know how you would feel if you had not pursued it. My mom wanted lots of intervention, and it prolonged her life but her quality of life was not good, and she had a lot of pain. A lot of people would not think it was worth it but it’s what she wanted. Nowadays it seems like the pendulum has swung too far the other way and you are deemed almost selfish if you decide the way you want to fight is by using the medical intervention that is available. I wish everyone the option to choose for themselves how they want to spend the end of their time on earth.
No, it wasn't. We made the best choice we could, but the doctors were overly rosy. And it was the wrong decision.
Alzheimer's is terrible - it takes the mind but spares the body.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:We all agree that my father's aggressive medical treatment that prolonged his life a year was a mistake. We shouldn't have done it.
Hopefully it was your father who chose it. You don’t know how you would feel if you had not pursued it. My mom wanted lots of intervention, and it prolonged her life but her quality of life was not good, and she had a lot of pain. A lot of people would not think it was worth it but it’s what she wanted. Nowadays it seems like the pendulum has swung too far the other way and you are deemed almost selfish if you decide the way you want to fight is by using the medical intervention that is available. I wish everyone the option to choose for themselves how they want to spend the end of their time on earth.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:We all agree that my father's aggressive medical treatment that prolonged his life a year was a mistake. We shouldn't have done it.
Hopefully it was your father who chose it. You don’t know how you would feel if you had not pursued it. My mom wanted lots of intervention, and it prolonged her life but her quality of life was not good, and she had a lot of pain. A lot of people would not think it was worth it but it’s what she wanted. Nowadays it seems like the pendulum has swung too far the other way and you are deemed almost selfish if you decide the way you want to fight is by using the medical intervention that is available. I wish everyone the option to choose for themselves how they want to spend the end of their time on earth.
I wish everyone had that option too. But if you open the the New York Times today, you can read about a 40 year old mom who isn’t getting basic health checkups and medication for very treatable conditions because her family is struggling to pay off an $8000 medical debt for a 3 day hospital stay her infant had for febrile seizures. She had insurance but a high deductible.
My point is that in an ideal world the elderly could have the best medical care possible. But when we as a society aren’t providing universal health care to basically healthy people, it’s ignorant not to talk about the trade offs.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:We all agree that my father's aggressive medical treatment that prolonged his life a year was a mistake. We shouldn't have done it.
Hopefully it was your father who chose it. You don’t know how you would feel if you had not pursued it. My mom wanted lots of intervention, and it prolonged her life but her quality of life was not good, and she had a lot of pain. A lot of people would not think it was worth it but it’s what she wanted. Nowadays it seems like the pendulum has swung too far the other way and you are deemed almost selfish if you decide the way you want to fight is by using the medical intervention that is available. I wish everyone the option to choose for themselves how they want to spend the end of their time on earth.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:We all agree that my father's aggressive medical treatment that prolonged his life a year was a mistake. We shouldn't have done it.
Hopefully it was your father who chose it. You don’t know how you would feel if you had not pursued it. My mom wanted lots of intervention, and it prolonged her life but her quality of life was not good, and she had a lot of pain. A lot of people would not think it was worth it but it’s what she wanted. Nowadays it seems like the pendulum has swung too far the other way and you are deemed almost selfish if you decide the way you want to fight is by using the medical intervention that is available. I wish everyone the option to choose for themselves how they want to spend the end of their time on earth.
Anonymous wrote:We all agree that my father's aggressive medical treatment that prolonged his life a year was a mistake. We shouldn't have done it.