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Anonymous wrote:Strength train with weights to change body shape the fastest. Even something like reformer Pilates will do this. Yes you still have to be mindful of what you eat but it will make a big difference in shape even if weight stays the same. Focus on fat, fiber, protein when you eat. You need as nutrient dense foods as possible if you are going to restrict calories. Also, in the long run muscle mass burns more calories than fat so this will also up your metabolism so you can eat more. I personally do not believe in the sustainability of restrictive diets. You have to change body composition and ensure foods are nutrient dense.

Can you give examples?

PP here. Yes, first of all, start focusing on shopping produce and meat/poultry/fish and eliminate or minimize anything boxed. If you do buy boxed/bagged items inspect the ingredient list. Don’t get duped by marketing ploys on the front of the bag. Anything with preservatives or additives, just don’t buy it. It will NOT fill out up or keep you full. You really need to get curious into the vitamin and mineral content of food and what you are actually eating. Anything that is high in fiber, magnesium, folate, potassium, vitamin c etc… is good food. Also, enriched products are not as good as the real thing. Many people also have trouble digesting the enriched version of things.

Basically you want to get strong and healthy as you lose the fat and weight you don’t want. This can only happen by focusing on nutrients (think health is wealth!) and exercise that strengthens your body. Shift your whole perspective from I need to lose this weight to “I’m going to make myself the strongest most healthy most beautiful version possible!” And you are doing this for you! It might sound a little cringe but I am so serious! The last thing you need is a mind set of deprivation and restriction.

So examples of meals:
Breakfast:
- organic steel cut oats with chia seeds and some type of nut butter
- a few eggs cooked in quality olive oil mashed with avocados
- salmon with avocado on real bread (real bread is 4-5 ingredients max. Don’t get duped by shelf bread with 10 extra ingredients and Unbleached flour which is absolutely worthless)

Lunch:
- hearty salad with leaf base but then nutrient dense vegetables (broccoli, cauliflower, spinach, asparagus), a protein, chick peas, drizzled with olive oil and balsamic vinegar (stay away from grocery store dressing. The vast majority have vegetable oils which are awful for you and increase inflammation. On that note avoid vegetable oils period. It is in everything so this is not easy but it is why we Americans have such a health problem).
- any protein/veggie/fiber and fat combo: grilled chicken/hearty portion of brussel sprouts/side of quinoa or brown rice.

Dinner:
- same thing. Any protein/fat/fiber combo.

The important thing is to eat really good quality fats. Fats are what keep you full! They have to be great quality so pure olive oil, avocado oil, coconut oil and fats from foods like avocados. Stay away from vegetable fats like the plague. When you go out to eat try to stay away from sauces. That’s where all the vegetable fat and sugar that trigger inflammation are hidden. Always ask for olive oil and balsamic for dressing.

If you want to count Calories or do low carb then do it. I personally do not. I think it is all kind of a sham even though it works for people short term and some people long term (because they just live like that). I think real issue is that so much of the ingredients of food, especially bread products, are just garbage. Anyway, with lowering calories it is so so important to notice nutrient density to avoid injury and illness.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Strength train with weights to change body shape the fastest. Even something like reformer Pilates will do this. Yes you still have to be mindful of what you eat but it will make a big difference in shape even if weight stays the same. Focus on fat, fiber, protein when you eat. You need as nutrient dense foods as possible if you are going to restrict calories. Also, in the long run muscle mass burns more calories than fat so this will also up your metabolism so you can eat more. I personally do not believe in the sustainability of restrictive diets. You have to change body composition and ensure foods are nutrient dense.

Can you give examples?

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Anonymous wrote:It does suck. How long have you been trying to lose?

Did you take a Before pic? Do it now if not. That can really help show changes even when we can’t see or feel them.

OP here. My latest kick is just since New Year's. Only a couple of weeks.

But I have been trying at various levels of intensity to move my baby/pandemic weight for about a year.

Before pic is a good idea!

But if you’ve already lost a few pounds, then that’s great. 1-2 pounds per weeks is the most you should lose anyway. And if you weren’t consistent in the last year, results will have been spotty at best. I’ve been at it extremely consistently for 8 months and I’ve lost about 6 lbs a month on average. And that’s counting every calorie I put in my mouth, upping my exercise continuously as it gets harder and harder to budge the pounds the more I’ve lost, drinking a ton of water, hanging out calorie laden foods for more filling less calorie dense foods, basically an overhaul of my life. It’s not eacsy.

Whats the best? Eggs, avocado, nuts? What else?

Those are all healthy but avocados and nuts have a of fat so you need to be careful with them.

Anonymous wrote:I find that if I think about dieting or losing weight, I end up eating more because it's on my mind. I lose more weight if I'm too busy to think about eating, but have healthy foods available. I'd try to stop fixating. Get busy with something else.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It does suck. How long have you been trying to lose?

Did you take a Before pic? Do it now if not. That can really help show changes even when we can’t see or feel them.

OP here. My latest kick is just since New Year's. Only a couple of weeks.

But I have been trying at various levels of intensity to move my baby/pandemic weight for about a year.

Before pic is a good idea!

But if you’ve already lost a few pounds, then that’s great. 1-2 pounds per weeks is the most you should lose anyway. And if you weren’t consistent in the last year, results will have been spotty at best. I’ve been at it extremely consistently for 8 months and I’ve lost about 6 lbs a month on average. And that’s counting every calorie I put in my mouth, upping my exercise continuously as it gets harder and harder to budge the pounds the more I’ve lost, drinking a ton of water, hanging out calorie laden foods for more filling less calorie dense foods, basically an overhaul of my life. It’s not eacsy.

Whats the best? Eggs, avocado, nuts? What else?

I mean, I don’t like avocados or nuts. I do eat a lot of eggs, generally scrambled up and tossed with whatever vegetables i have that sound good- spinach, peppers, tomatoes, mushrooms, etc. I also eat big mixed green salads topped with chopped up grilled chicken breast, chopped up apples or raspberries and drizzled with just a touch of balsamic vinegar. Where salads become problematic is all the dressing, cheese, and other things people put in them. And I really do count every single berry as I put it on and log it in my app. Mostly people are just eating more than they think which is why the weight won’t budge. I measure things and weigh things on a kitchen scale. Now it’s a lot easier for me to eyeball things so that I can make an educated guess of what I’ve eaten when at a party or dinner out so I can enter it later.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It does suck. How long have you been trying to lose?

Did you take a Before pic? Do it now if not. That can really help show changes even when we can’t see or feel them.

OP here. My latest kick is just since New Year's. Only a couple of weeks.

But I have been trying at various levels of intensity to move my baby/pandemic weight for about a year.

Before pic is a good idea!

But if you’ve already lost a few pounds, then that’s great. 1-2 pounds per weeks is the most you should lose anyway. And if you weren’t consistent in the last year, results will have been spotty at best. I’ve been at it extremely consistently for 8 months and I’ve lost about 6 lbs a month on average. And that’s counting every calorie I put in my mouth, upping my exercise continuously as it gets harder and harder to budge the pounds the more I’ve lost, drinking a ton of water, hanging out calorie laden foods for more filling less calorie dense foods, basically an overhaul of my life. It’s not eacsy.

Whats the best? Eggs, avocado, nuts? What else?

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It does suck. How long have you been trying to lose?

Did you take a Before pic? Do it now if not. That can really help show changes even when we can’t see or feel them.

OP here. My latest kick is just since New Year's. Only a couple of weeks.

But I have been trying at various levels of intensity to move my baby/pandemic weight for about a year.

Before pic is a good idea!

But if you’ve already lost a few pounds, then that’s great. 1-2 pounds per weeks is the most you should lose anyway. And if you weren’t consistent in the last year, results will have been spotty at best. I’ve been at it extremely consistently for 8 months and I’ve lost about 6 lbs a month on average. And that’s counting every calorie I put in my mouth, upping my exercise continuously as it gets harder and harder to budge the pounds the more I’ve lost, drinking a ton of water, hanging out calorie laden foods for more filling less calorie dense foods, basically an overhaul of my life. It’s not eacsy.

Whats the best? Eggs, avocado, nuts? What else?