Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:You need to wake him up and take him and not let it be the brother's responsibility.
+1, you need to parent here.
I woke him up around midnight for years. But we quickly learned that he's not on any kind of a *schedule* as far as nighttime accidents go.
Additionally, regardless of when I woke him up, he'd still wake up with a wet pull-up nightly. So it wasn't serving anyone to wake him up twice a night (once by myself, and once with his brother). I've never been a fan of waking up a sleeping child without a VERY good reason, especially not one that's such a deep sleeper as him. It's not his brother's *responsibility*, they just simply like getting up together, because his brother doesn't like the dark/being up by himself in the night. So it works out. They both know they're welcome to come and wake me up at any time, I'm a night owl anyways, and don't mind. That isn't the concern.