Anonymous wrote:I host all three.
Thanksgiving we eat at 1 pm. We live in an area where there is still a high school rivalry Thanksgiving day football game, so everyone shows up after the game starving. I am the main cook, and I like to have leftover food put away and a load of dishes in the dishwasher. Then we watch movies or football all afternoon and evening. I have some pre-made dips to serve later on in the day and people help themselves to a plate of leftovers if they like.
Christmas Eve at 5 or 6. 6 or 7 if we are going to church, but that hasn't been happening since Covid, and now that my kids are adults.
Christmas Day we don't have a formal dinner, just grazing all day as people are in and out. Ham, quiches and baked goods for breakfast/brunch. I make 2 pans of lasagna a few days ahead of time and freeze them. Lasagna and salad are available for Christmas whenever someone comes over or is hungry. Sometimes I do a beef tenderloin roast to go with the lasagna too.
Anonymous wrote:We usually eat at 9 or 10 (PM!) this year we were proud we managed to sit down for dinner at 8:30, but Christmas dinner was closer to 10pm…