Anonymous
12/21/2022 13:51
Subject: “Collusion”
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP, I'm not sure what you are trying to get out of this thread. First you have "social anxiety" so are out of the loop, but now you are trying to confirm "rumors".
Seems obvious: OP doesn’t want to ask at school and get pegged as a possible college-app-obsessed parent, so she’s asking anonymously. I bet a lot of parents are curious but don’t dare ask…
This!
Anonymous
12/21/2022 12:45
Subject: “Collusion”
Anonymous wrote:OP, I'm not sure what you are trying to get out of this thread. First you have "social anxiety" so are out of the loop, but now you are trying to confirm "rumors".
Seems obvious: OP doesn’t want to ask at school and get pegged as a possible college-app-obsessed parent, so she’s asking anonymously. I bet a lot of parents are curious but don’t dare ask…
Anonymous
12/21/2022 12:40
Subject: “Collusion”
OP, I'm not sure what you are trying to get out of this thread. First you have "social anxiety" so are out of the loop, but now you are trying to confirm "rumors".
Anonymous
12/21/2022 12:20
Subject: Re:“Collusion”
Anonymous wrote:Thanks for the responses thus far! Many PPs have focused on the college counseling office, but I’m actually more interested in whether *students* make decisions based on where their peers are applying. For example, DC is legacy at two places, and a non-legacy classmate asked which school DC is leaning towards in the early round so she could focus on the other. DC assumed she was joking, but it made me curious enough to ask DCUM!
Sorry, I meant to say the incident above *plus* the rumors I’ve heard about the CCO are what prompted me to post.
Anonymous
12/21/2022 12:13
Subject: Re:“Collusion”
Thanks for the responses thus far! Many PPs have focused on the college counseling office, but I’m actually more interested in whether *students* make decisions based on where their peers are applying. For example, DC is legacy at two places, and a non-legacy classmate asked which school DC is leaning towards in the early round so she could focus on the other. DC assumed she was joking, but it made me curious enough to ask DCUM!
Anonymous
12/21/2022 11:55
Subject: “Collusion”
Anonymous wrote:At DC’s school, I’ve heard rumors that counselors may steer students away or toward certain colleges, especially in the early round, based on who else is applying that year. I’m not sure if this is actually true or not, but it made me wonder if students might do something similar among themselves, e.g. you apply to College A because you are legacy, I’ll apply to College B because 5 other students are already applying to College C, etc. For those of you who’ve BTDT, is this common?
Private Universities have very little incentive to not do what they want, and your counselor does not have to disclose anything.
Anonymous
12/20/2022 23:45
Subject: “Collusion”
Sounds like strategic team work, not collusion.
If it makes you feel better.